Roommie is passive aggressive

So i’ve been rooming with a friend (idt i can call her one now lol). Things have gone down hill for me in terms of being laid off and then having my dad die. I am now i guess what they call an orphan as mom died 9 years ago. I’m not perfect but i can hold mysef accountmost timea but lately she’s been leaving notes all over the place and using her boyfriend to confront me. I’m starting to get tired of it bc she hides but will use other people as attack dogs. I’ve stopped trying to confront her after she had her boyfriend dress me down like i’m some low ranked private in the marines almost (he’s in the army). I’m also tired of her blaming me for when things blow up in her face, like how does someone almost getting their can repossessed bc of $900 in unpaid car notes is somehow my fault.. I don’t think she knows how to be friends and she’s always complained about not having any, but now i see why….Any other advice except moving out? I found some boxes and am putting some stuff together. I have tried to talk to her in the past but she becomes evasive and i no longer want to be intimidated by having to talk to a man instead of her. Patience is non existent as i have tried. I have been dismissed, ignored, and patronized when i attempt to speak up. Time to pack my bags i guess?