Sibling distance
I have been living with my sibling for almost 3 yrs now and I am over it, we all live together at home with our mother and kids. I am at a point where I need to save and move out. The energy my sibling had at this point in life there is nothing I can do to help them. They have to helo themselves, and there rudeness and attitude I am not for at all. I am still my hapoy self yet I am not my siblings crutch,and since they are in pain from an injury they have became more nasty towards me and my peace of mind just wants to be away from themmas much as possible. I am not thier maid or keeper and all of the house work falls on me, they do not want to listen to what they need to do to heal. I am the healer in my family and I am over the bs from them. I need space like three years away from family to just live on my own and enjoy it for what it is. I do not want to crash out on my sibling so I do my best just to focus on me and my health and my childs health. That is all I can focus on since my sibling lives in their own delulu universe and I am not here for it right now in this chapter in my life .
@Lenaye8
Well it sounds like a good idea.. You can't keep putting everyone else's priorities above yours forever. It sounded like this is your fight song.. We can support you here. You don't have to do this anymore if you don't want to. i'm doing it too...🌱
Yessss!!! My fight song, keeping my peace thru it all and stepping back from doing any extra work
@Lenaye8 Living in a shared space when the energy feels so heavy and unappreciated takes a real toll. It makes complete sense why you’re craving a space of your own where you can just breathe and focus on your own life. When you picture having that independent space, what feels like the most comforting part of that goal?
When I pisture having my own space the forst thing is the extra silence and knowing I can walk around my place with no audience. I need the extra silence/meditation moments to keep my mental health calm. I get over stimulated and I have to tune out my family more often