Supportive people
Do you have a person you can tell all your accomplishments or worries to? Whenever i feel the need to talk i don't know who to turn to because i haven't met yet supportive people. It's hard to keep it all to myself, but being alone is much better than being in a bad company. When i think about my past friendships i immediately am grateful to be alone now😂
@schrodingerscattt you know I've never dated and I never will. It's safer to be alone. But in this site it's different, cause when you accomplish something you can show a photo of make a positive post. Then when you need to vent or share the not so positive things you can post that here too ❤ do you have a listener on here you can go to? I'm alone but I have my carers who make a fuss when I do somethinh like art and crafts. But my deep down feelings I can't talk to anyone about. Sometimes I can't here a bit. We are interested in the things you accomplish and are here when you need emotional support. Your not alone ok? ❤ hugs you
@Tinywhisper11
Thank you! Yes I do have a great listener but it's just not the same as having someone in real life. I just want a real life hug😭
@schrodingerscattt 😥 I know I'm so sorry sweetie. Hey! Have you thought about getting a pet?
@Tinywhisper11
Yes! I want to have a cat! But I didn't know if it was such a great idea for my mental health. A pet won't cure me after all and sometimes I don't even have the energy to care about myself... But that would be great
@schrodingerscattt yeah I understand,,animals can be hard work. Especially when your ill. I know how much your struggling lately, and that sometimes it can feel like there's no way out of this. But I've been keeping you in my prayers, I really hope things will get better for you very soon ❤
@Tinywhisper11
Aww thank you❤️ tbh I am scared for myself and my future I'm afraid I won't make it. My body and mind are already starting to give up. It will be a miracle if I make it 😭💔
@schrodingerscattt no don't give up 😥 I often feel like giving up too! Doctors told me it will be a miracle if I live to 40years old.And I live in fear sometimes ending things seems like the best way out of this. So I understand but I believe we can all help each other, we can all make this world a better place. Have faith in tommorow. Always believe something good is around the corner. Gives you the giantest tiny hug ever ❤ and hugs you in my heart for ever and ever ❤
If you can get a cat or any pet or plant that you need to get out of bed to care for, please do. You're correct, the pet will not magically cure whatever is going on with your mental health. You will just love that pet so much and be worried for their well-being so much so that you will make yourself get out of bed. It will help a needy animal and make them have great life and help you see what you cared for grow and be happy and healthy hopefully. 🤗💜🤗
@schrodingerscattt I have a friend I tell everything to, but they're online haha.
@emprieantz
That's great! Love your profile pic btw😂
@schrodingerscattt thank you schrodinger cat
@schrodingerscattt Maybe its for the best.
But i like the the way you are using humour as a defence mechanism to cope with it.
Lol.
You're very funny. You'll find friends. Happy Thanksgiving. Thank you making me laugh. 🤗💜🤗
@schrodingerscattt
I'm going through the same things. Don't think I'll make it either. I just want people to be there for me who care for me.
It seems we all go through the lack of understanding from others. I'm so sorry. It can hurt. We all want and need community and connection. Until you can find the right friends on the outside World, we're here. There is also NAMI. They offer free connections groups if you have access to Zoom. I just found them, and they understanding and compassionate like here. Big hug because I do care. 🤗💜🤗
@Warpedme
I never heard of Nami. I'm gonna check that out. But is it only available in the US or also in other countries?
I looked it up, and it says the US only. However, if you go to NAMI.org, they have a list of other resources, and you can still use the site and information on it. I'm not sure if you can attend outside of the US, but they have virtual meetings. I don't know why you couldn't. I sent them an e-mail to register. if you can, send an e-mail to see if you are able to attend. They really are caring people. 🤗 Hang in there, we're not alone. We're selective. 😊
No, but we get used to it 🙂.
I write instead.
@schrodingerscattt
My supportive person of 8 years decided I was too "needy" and threw all my confidences/trust back in my face in a very vindictive, immature way.
I have a hard time opening up to anyone now.
