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User Profile: schrodingerscattt
schrodingerscattt November 20th, 2023

Do you have a person you can tell all your accomplishments or worries to? Whenever i feel the need to talk i don't know who to turn to because i haven't met yet supportive people. It's hard to keep it all to myself, but being alone is much better than being in a bad company. When i think about my past friendships i immediately am grateful to be alone now😂

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 November 20th, 2023

@schrodingerscattt you know I've never dated and I never will. It's safer to be alone. But in this site it's different, cause when you accomplish something you can show a photo of make a positive post. Then when you need to vent or share the not so positive things you can post that here too ❤ do you have a listener on here you can go to? I'm alone but I have my carers who make a fuss when I do somethinh like art and crafts. But my deep down feelings I can't talk to anyone about. Sometimes I can't here a bit. We are interested in the things you accomplish and are here when you need emotional support. Your not alone ok? ❤ hugs you

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User Profile: schrodingerscattt
schrodingerscattt OP November 21st, 2023

@Tinywhisper11

Thank you! Yes I do have a great listener but it's just not the same as having someone in real life. I just want a real life hug😭

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 November 21st, 2023

@schrodingerscattt 😥 I know I'm so sorry sweetie. Hey! Have you thought about getting a pet?

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User Profile: schrodingerscattt
schrodingerscattt OP November 21st, 2023

@Tinywhisper11

Yes! I want to have a cat! But I didn't know if it was such a great idea for my mental health.  A pet won't cure me after all and sometimes I don't even have the energy to care about myself... But that would be great 

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User Profile: emprieantz
emprieantz November 21st, 2023

@schrodingerscattt I have a friend I tell everything to, but they're online haha.

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User Profile: schrodingerscattt
schrodingerscattt OP November 21st, 2023

@emprieantz

That's great! Love your profile pic btw😂

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User Profile: emprieantz
emprieantz November 22nd, 2023

@schrodingerscattt thank you schrodinger cat

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User Profile: magicalBraveheart537
magicalBraveheart537 November 22nd, 2023

@schrodingerscattt Maybe its for the best.

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User Profile: magicalBraveheart537
magicalBraveheart537 November 22nd, 2023

But i like the the way you are using humour as a defence mechanism to cope with it.
Lol.

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User Profile: Warpedme
Warpedme November 24th, 2023

You're very funny. You'll find friends. Happy Thanksgiving. Thank you making me laugh. 🤗💜🤗

User Profile: communicativePond1728
communicativePond1728 November 24th, 2023

@schrodingerscattt

I'm going through the same things. Don't think I'll make it either. I just want people to be there for me who care for me. 

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User Profile: Warpedme
Warpedme November 24th, 2023

It seems we all go through the lack of understanding from others. I'm so sorry. It can hurt. We all want and need community and connection. Until you can find the right friends on the outside World, we're here. There is also NAMI. They offer free connections groups if you have access to Zoom. I just found them, and they understanding and compassionate like here. Big hug because I do care. 🤗💜🤗

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User Profile: schrodingerscattt
schrodingerscattt OP November 24th, 2023

@Warpedme

I never heard of Nami. I'm gonna check that out. But is it only available in the US or also in other countries? 

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User Profile: Warpedme
Warpedme November 24th, 2023

I looked it up, and it says the US only. However, if you go to NAMI.org, they have a list of other resources, and you can still use the site and information on it. I'm not sure if you can attend outside of the US, but they have virtual meetings. I don't know why you couldn't. I sent them an e-mail to register. if you can, send an e-mail to see if you are able to attend. They really are caring people. 🤗 Hang in there, we're not alone. We're selective. 😊

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User Profile: Polahn
Polahn December 18th, 2023

No, but we get used to it 🙂.

I write instead.

User Profile: neatBlueberry5213
neatBlueberry5213 December 18th, 2023

@schrodingerscattt

My supportive person of 8 years decided I was too "needy" and threw all my confidences/trust back in my face in a very vindictive, immature way.

I have a hard time opening up to anyone now.