Thinking of leaving cups
Ever since I aged up in November its been hard for me I've never been able to join any of the rooms because theyre all just a lot and I've tried using forums to talk with my friends from the teen side but yet I really only have one person that still talks to me from there. I dont know what to do anymore i just feel lost and like I dont belong on cups anymore. I really struggle with new things and just joining rooms to a place where I don't know anyone I know it would be too much for me. I've tried getting support but it was just thrown away and got no help at all with aging up so I really feel like people just dont want me here on cups. Even if I stay I'd most likely loose the one person I still get to talk to on here so whats even the point me being on cups if I just make friends on here then just loose them. I cant join any rooms to try make new friends and stuff so I don't know anymore. I really dont feel like i belong on cups anymore.
tagging the person I feel like would care @LoveMyMoonflowers
Hi Kyler, I hope that you do decide to stay as I can see that you are well on your way to make some new friends on the adult side. I kinda understand how you feel, I honestly don't know anyone here lol. I guess I kinda just stay to myself and whenever I need someone a listener I'm active but that dosen't work out. I just decide to stay to myself and deal with my problems alone. But I hope you have decided to stay and sure it probably feels weird and fustrating having to be apart from your friends since you have now become an adult but you can do it,I believe in you!!
Edit: I recently turned 18 in November too.
@kylersartpace
What why not! Why can you bein group chats that's not fair. Also nice to meet you
@Iloveturtles012251*can't you be in
@kylersartpace hey i think you and I might be feeling the same way but in different context would you maybe like to talk to me about this?
@kylersartpace i care i would be sad if you left:
@cielsylvin i support your decision though
@kylersartpace Something similar happened to me, I wanted to speak in a group about something that worried me and everyone ignored me, and then a listener arrived and I told them that I was only looking for a diagnosis (only because I explained what was happening to me and she I asked for advice because I was afraid to talk to a psychologist and/or that my family would find out), which was never related to what I said and it is a complete lack of respect that I am talking about a private conversation, which made me very angry, and I don't know if this place is worth it
@kylersartpace
Don't leave. I will be happy to be your listener. Feel free to chat with me anytime! :)
I'm probably a little late but I'd like to talk to you. I like listening to others and just talking
I’m here if you wanna talk