WOMEN: What Do You Want Men to Know?
Women: Please tell men anything you’d like them to know. Whatever you’d like! Please keep it clean and appropriate; remember that there are teens reading this. Thank you! <3
Please check out the second post similar to this, where the roles are reversed. :)
@jesusredeemedme2425 You know, women really are such gentle and caring souls by nature. They often need that emotional support because, they have this let’s face it tendency, and they tend to be quite emotional when it comes to relationships and trust. It’s all about feeling secure for them; they don’t really respond well to being commanded or controlled.
Plus, they have this incredible wisdom and strength in their hearts. When you talk to them, it's so important to keep it friendly and show respect. After all, they carry that nurturing spirit, much like a mother. They can make this world beautiful by their presence!
@convivialScarf2882
Yeah I too get this feeling sometimes like women represent a sea of peace and calm in the home and whatever the man goes through during the day, at the end of the day the man gets to return to that peace and calm that the woman reoresents. The woman is really the emotional anchor of the house.
@jesusredeemedme2425This is such a n interesting question. I feel compelled to comment about a book I read a while ago called "The Five Love Languages", this booked helped me so much to realize that each person has a different Love language based on how they received and interpreted love in youth. Humans tend to press love an show love in theirprimary and secondary love languages. This nook explains each of the languages andguides you through the process of determining your personalprimary and secondary Languages.Once I understood the concept of expressing and receiving love, I was able to identify the love languages of the people that I cared about most, including my children. parents, siblings andfriends. It saved great amount of time to invest my time and resources into meeting the correct needs ofothers andgoingstraight to the ways that they felt most cared for and loved most. Instead of dingthings for others thtI would enjoyhem doing for ME( the things I appreciate, suchas Acts of Service versus gifts are not necessarily the same love languages of my husband, children and other relatives. If you have achanceto read this book, Ithik itcouldbe very helpful to anyone who seeks better interpersonal relationships in their life. It even helped improve my Spiritual relationship with God, the Creator of all things. I started to show much more daily gratitude towards the Father for every little thing I noticed He provided to me in my life daily life and my heart felt so much happier because I know and understand now that Our Father in heaven wants words of appreciation and quality time with us regularly (these are 2 of the 5 languages)My soul felt better or having learned these concepts and I became able toexpress my own personal needs to the people in my life once I understood what kinds of things made me truly feel loved! so, o answer your original question: I would want meb to read andunderstandthe concept of Love Languages so they can give and receive love to themselves and others in the ways that are most effective. I tru;y believe we could allenjoya much more caringandhappy worldif we could universally treat each other in respectful, loving ways and behave a little less selfishly to worktowards a peaceful happy world.
Thanks for posting such a thought provoking question!
Hugs,
Paula S.
