Why people ghost good ones like crazy -.-
Ppl not taking u seriously n I assume it’s cuz if someone is mainly friendly n easy going, others can ignore the whole character n see only this side of person
Me (like when I was ignored for serious things n was met with weird funny responses instead)
Did this happen to u guys often?
But why’s that when ppl only get use of u for either company or like time attention or for ur energy especially when ur all optimistic n bubbly in nature just to get later out (from convo), disappear n ghost u just like nothing?
Like what it even meant to them
Cuz this is what happened xxx times to me whenever I gave somebody chance n tbh worst type of ppl in this world…
@livbinny
I’m really sorry that you’ve had to go through this. It sounds like a very painful and frustrating experience when people don’t recognize or appreciate the kindness, energy, and sincerity you bring into interactions. It’s completely understandable to feel hurt when others seem to take you for granted or disappear without explanation.
Please know that your feelings are valid, and you are not alone in experiencing this. Unfortunately, not everyone reciprocates the same level of respect and consideration, but that does not diminish your worth or the positivity you share with others. Setting boundaries and surrounding yourself with people who genuinely value and respect you can help create more fulfilling relationships.
If you ever feel like sharing more or just need someone to listen, I am here for you. Your emotions and experiences matter, and you deserve to be heard and supported.
Yeah but that’s so hard to find
this is what the therapist would say
tbh I just always tried too much for any efforts whatever it was but I gave up on chasing them
cuz more I tried I realized when was last time someone did something nice for me n not always I for them
nowhen.
Problem is when I have boundaries it feels like I’m not myself but I never had any cuz no one told me that this is not good for me
guess cups see n hear me so🙏🏻 thanks…
@livbinny the way I see it, people come in and out of our lives all the time. So why not try to create as many great memories with those people as you can while their passing through ❤ what gets in the way between people/friends is just life I guess! Gives you a giant tiny hug ❤
