not sure what to do
hi everyone, i just need some advice. the relationships in my life are being ruined by me because i never reach out or talk to anyone until its been so long that i am terrified of letting the person confront me. i am so anxious to receive the consequences to my actions of not maintaining relationships. my behavior is hurting people i know but im not sure how to get enough energy or even just be coherent throughout the day to even think about hanging out or contacting people
@snailoone
Sometimes i think people who put off contacting someone is sometimes doing it because they do not know what to say or fear the other person will want more time commitment then you are ready to give...
We look for the "right" time the "right " words and just afraid to simply apologize for the time past ..since you last spoke. It does not need to be hard ... just a simple call or text. saying you were thinking of them could improve most relationships.