what do you prefer???

@creativeHemlock5483

Ooh made me think :0 I feel obsessive to a healthy extent in just the way that a person is about me and only about me and not in the creepy stalker-ish way *-* also yes, same with possessiveness (I'd prefer "protectiveness" over possessiveness though), a certain extent to add that special touch of *belongingness* feels good in a loving relationship, but again, to only some extent that's healthy, beyond a certain limit it can get toxic and threatening (to say the least) soon-ish, and soooo *not* preferred. :0

What are your thoughts and preferences over the same?🌞