Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav

I may be leaving for a little bit

User Profile: AdrienLovesYou23
AdrienLovesYou23 November 17th, 2023

Hey for those who don't know me, I'm Adrien, a proud listener here on cups. I love being a listener it helps me learn new things about myself and teaches me how to support others as I used to be horrible at that. Thank you to all my friends and peers on here who have supported me (all may not be tagged I will tag more later) @StarrySkies1236 @DarkerPlaces @theboymoana @sweetpeach024 @LoveMyMoonflowers @Min7228
For those who know me, I have been trying to take a break from cups for a long time. It has been really hard for me to stay off of Cups because I enjoy so many people on here and it's a safe place. I will try my hardest to stay off of Cups as it is making my mental health go down as a listener. I don't have access to my M account so I can't vent which is making it a lot harder to do my job as a listener. I have also been beating myself up over some things. I have seen people who have been a listener for a shorter time than me and are doing better than me. I am losing my confidence and worthiness as a listener. I am doing my best but I feel it's not enough.

As I said it's not going to be easy for me to take a break but I am going to try. I may come back in a day, I may come back no later than New Year's (January 1st, 2024). I love you all and if I feel it's right I will start on Sunday. I will make an update post on Sunday telling you guys if it's a for sure thing. Love you and and thank you for respecting my decision <3  

19
User Profile: KatePersephone
KatePersephone November 18th, 2023

@AdrienLovesYou23 thank you for sharing this with us, Adrien. I am wishing you the best during this break <3 much love!! I'll miss youuuu

User Profile: Akira2357
Akira2357 November 18th, 2023

@AdrienLovesYou23 Hi Adrian! You know what's best for you and you are doing the right thing by taking a break for yourself when you know you need. Take it from a Listener that's only been here for two weeks, I can most certainly understand the long term affects that it can have on you I just haven't felt it yet because time changes things. I hope you feel better soon and sending lots of love and support :)