An end to a relationship.
i broke up with my girl because i found out she was cheating on me with another guy, i always kept joking and asking if she is cheating on me or talking with another guy, and sometimes she panics and cuts me off, till i found out about it, she lied in the confessing, and i found that she was flirting with him back and fourth, i'm very sad and cut off her for a short time, i just can't move on, i also texted her last weekend asking if she has a new boyfriend, she said she's in a talking stage with some one, it hurts alot.
@S4S5Spyder
It’s so tough to be betrayed like that—especially when you had that gut feeling all along. Finding out she lied must have ripped open a whole lot of hurt. I'm so sorry to hear about what you been through. Its not fair. 💔🫂🫂🫂
Hearing she’s moving on hurts, but remember: your heart needs time to heal. It’s okay if you can’t move on yet. Just be gentle with yourself today. I’m here if you need to talk about it.
@S4S5Spyder Sounds like she just wanted to flirt around which shows how little respect she had for you, which is sad. I would cut her off completely to save your peace
I'm so sorry to see that you're hurting so much. 4 weeks ago I went through something very similar And that is the reason why I joins this community., it was very difficult but it's getting better now. Sometimes it takes time to process what really happened and see the person for who they really are. I really hope that this pain goes away soon for you.
Please know that it's okay to feel hurt, it's okay to cry, and it's okay to grieve the loss of something and someone that you were true and honest with. Take care of yourself the best way that you can even if that means just taking a walk, or talking to a friend. Sending you positive wishes!
People come and hurt us and then they get away with all that. No karma. Biggest lie is "Do good , have good." And I hate God for this. He loves those who hurt others. And not someone like you. People like us are the ones who always get used and then hurt. And then our lives get wasted in healing ourselves. It's like getting punished for some crime that was done by someone else.
@Maldiniyj27
I know what you are feeling is frustrating and emotionally draining and looks like you have experienced this first hand and I have also felt this multiple times talking to someone always help
Can we chat ? Please
@S4S5SpyderWhat you're feeling is completely valid. You were loyal and trusted her, and now you're left with betrayal, confusion, and pain — that hurts in a way words can’t fully capture. It’s okay that you’re sad, it’s okay that you’re struggling to move on, and it’s okay that it still affects you even after cutting her off. Reaching out to her, even just to ask, comes from a place of deep hurt and unanswered questions — that’s human. The weight you're carrying makes sense. You're not overreacting. You're not weak. You're just heartbroken. And that's real.
if you need anyone to talk,im here.
I'm glad you found out. It hurts to be with someone who knows what will hurt you and then they intentionally do that behind your back until you find out and get very hurt
I hope you find someone who's worth it and is as loyal to you as you will be to them :)
If you want to talk to someone, I'm always all ears. Just message me
@S4S5Spyde
Sometimes people are like that and the best thing to do is give it time. Even though they might be in the wrong or vise versa, she probably needs time to think about what's she's done or she just doesnt care. But what matters is your still the good guy so don't worry about her and move on and prove her wrong.😊
@S4S5Spyder First of all, I would like to check to confirm that you are in a safe space and feeling okay? Secondly, I feel your pain completely. Would you be open to discussing your situation further ? Please feel completely free to decline