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The Power of a Good Conversation: What Made Yours Unforgettable?

User Profile: Remina
Remina May 21st, 2025

Can you recall a really good chat you had whether you were the member or the listener? What was memorable about the chat? Was it the chat topic, the words, or just the feeling it left you with?

Maya Angelou once said "People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel."

This quote above describes the essence of positive communication. Besides leaving an impression on the member, positive communication provides health and wellness benefits for the listener.

Good communication is important for many reasons. When we interact with a person who makes us feel loved or supported, oxytocin is released.

Positive Psychology benefits listening in many ways

  • Enhancing relationships by encouraging openness, understanding, and trust.
  • Improving interactions and conflict resolution through techniques like active listening and constructive feedback.
  • Promoting emotional well-being and fostering stronger, more supportive connections.
  • Reducing loneliness and enhancing feelings of autonomy.
  • Improving trust, job performance, and reducing burnout at work.
  • Enhancing self-esteem and feelings of competence for the person listening.
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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 May 23rd, 2025

@Remina I love that quote by Maya Angelou 🥰 One chat that stands out for me as a listener is when the member said they felt heard, seen and cared about and my quiet presence gave them the strength to then move forward alone towards healing, I was able to let them.see they had the strength inside themselves all along 💜🥰

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User Profile: Remina
Remina OP May 23rd, 2025

I love that! Thank you for sharing @Amanda84

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 May 24th, 2025

@Remina 💜

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User Profile: Rose1324
Rose1324 May 24th, 2025

@Amanda84

Great response! I loved reading it.

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User Profile: Rose1324
Rose1324 May 24th, 2025

@Remina

I really love your forum. It got me thinking about how listeners can make a difference. How I could make a difference. Thank you for your post. Keep up the good work. Thanks 

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User Profile: Remina
Remina OP May 24th, 2025

Youre welcome ! @Rose1324 !

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User Profile: Heather225
Heather225 May 28th, 2025

@Remina

good point about oxytocin release!! makes me think we could use a Cups campaign: "have you gotten your oxytocin today?" 😄 thank you for another excellent post

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User Profile: Remina
Remina OP May 29th, 2025

We totally could make that an ad! “7cups, your Oxytocin dealer!”

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User Profile: Remina
Remina OP January 10th

I have decided to move this thread to the member side as I feel that it would be great to hear from members about this!