Milestones or Steps Completed! Share and Celebrate Here :)
Congratulations! You made it to the next level on your growth path. Share with us the #1 thing you learned on this leg of your journey!
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@GlenM Nothing lasts forever, not even pain!
I made it to step 20. I'm learning to be gentle with myself because it takes baby steps.
I learned that you can get through these growth path milestones in one day.
Made it to Step 40. It's extremely odd to be here, because now I'm in a position of trying to figure out how I feel, just for my own curiosity's sake. Spent some time with my ex yesterday, and it was weird, because at one point I would have been thrilled silly to see him and have his full attention...but yesterday I was just...meh. For lack of a better word. It honestly felt like too little, too late. I guess that's a good thing; there were a few moments yesterday that, a few weeks ago, would have had me in tears, but instead I just stayed calm and didn't hold on to those things. He also kept saying he loved me and I think it threw him off that I did not say anything back beyond "ok." I know I still care about him, you don't stop caring for someone overnight, but at the same time it feels like whatever I had inside has diminished. I guess that's a part of the healing. And I am accepting that and trying to figure it out rather than beat myself up for this mix.
@CleopatraElizabethI
I think you're trying to do what's best for yourself, and yes, I understand that mix, the swirl of what's past and used to pull you in, and your currently growing independence and resistance to being taken in by him again. You will live, you will live. You seem strong. Best wishes to you. :) Congrats on reaching step 40 by the way. I guess you've been taking time to figure out what you want to feel.
Yay
@GlenM to love myself and keep relax.
Wow step 160, I can't believe I been on 7 cups that long,thanks everybody
@Fro704 thank you for this I'm going to steal it for my own personal use
that are people who care about me
I reached 24!!!
@determinedYard5818
Great job on getting to step 24! :)
reached the step 20
@ramdomotaku
Congrats on reaching step 20! Keep it up. ^^