Milestones or Steps Completed! Share and Celebrate Here :)
Congratulations! You made it to the next level on your growth path. Share with us the #1 thing you learned on this leg of your journey!

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I've learned to accept that I can't do everything, and that failing at something isnt the end of the world.
That I can do great things even when people tell me I can't :)
Making time is important.
@GlenM That kindness can go a long way
@GlenM
I'm learning to trust myself and my talents.
I've learned how to get a better handle on my emotions, how to breathe even when I'm angry. I learned how to vent my anger on a appropriate manner and how to express whats on my mind to others in a non over emotional manner.
Learned that though I'm one of the more 'shy' people in live group chats with confrontation- if you talk &@$#* about autism or people who have it - I WILL stand up. I will get mad. And I wont hide that fact. I will definately fight you. (my normal behavior is very different, it's just this one thing and a lot of people with autism are scared to stand up- it's terrifying for me too. But if I can defend my people - just try and stop me.) It's a shame there's such a lack of understanding for autism even on this site sometimes.
*heavy breathing*
My 'aspi-girls', 'aspi-boys', and autistic kids/teens/adults of every kind, anywhere on the spectrum, deserve kindness. <3
It really doesn't feel like I've actually learned anything new recently. I started a DBT class, though, so I'm learning ways to manage my life. I think one thing I've been reminded of is that being able to manage my emotions isn't going to be easy. It's going to take a lot of time and effort. And because it takes time and effort, I don't need to push myself too much in other areas of life. That way I'll keep giving up half way through "recovering" and lose more motivation. Self care needs to be a top priority.
I have to do this every day.