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That there is help in the most unusual places
@adventurousTree2863 and you are helping yourself by seeking it!
Step 280.
Take one more step. If you don't want to do it anyway. This keeps my head straight, for the most part. I can express myself on here. I don't think any one else would understand outside of here. It's always just your fine, get over it, be happy, smile. They don't know what goes on in my head. The thoughts I think before I say one word. The things I feel. How I look at everything so much differently than they do. I'm glad I can express feelings and thoughts and no one says get over it.
@samd136 And we are glad to have you here and know that you are making a difference, in your own life, in other's lives.
@samd136 I can really relate to this ♥ It's very important to keep going. I'm glad we found this site and people who can relate
I'm rather happy at celebrating cup 75!!! I'm really an introvert but the forums have me opening up anListening more. My favorite thing I've learned so far is what a great Listener I can be and I love helping people from all walks of Life🍰
I learned from the recent video I watched that if you always keep dealing with your problems, you're missing out on good things. But you can deal with the problem little by little but don't get obsessed over it. Also, not every situation is what it seems like. Like how there can be something good about something bad. Basically you should be looking at the good side.
I've honestly just been feeling kind of down lately. I feel alone. My boyfriend broke up with me and calls me a jerk. I was horrible to him during the relationship and I feel incredibly guilty and can't forgive myself. I was only horrible to him because I don't know how to deal with people. I told him that but he reacted to that and said "Oh so you don't know how to not treat me like shit" (sorry for cursing if that triggers you) But that's not what I meant at all. I also now know for a fact both my parents hate me because they said so to my face, but I guess I'm lucky because one of my guy friends actually cared about the situation and did try to help me. But I still need support, so I went to my ex because we used to still be good friends, but as of yesterday.....well...he hates me..he doesn't want to be friends and will hate me forever....well I'm just being depressing so I'll stop but I could really use some support on this if you think you can help. Thanks for reading my situation..
@tidyNorth4685 you could pm me or find a listener at 7cups.com/BrowseListeners :)
@tidyNorth4685 I am so sorry you are going through this...I go through similar situations so I can understand how you feel. I hope you can forgive yourself, everyone deserves happiness. Don't let the past become your future. Things can change, we can all get better and find the happiness we deserve. You have the ability to grow as a person and achieve wonderful things. Remember that pain is temporary ♥ I wish you the best of luck. Feel free to pm me any time :)
@Nagisa Thank you <3
@tidyNorth4685
Think of the Second Law of Newton (yes, school physics). Every action triggers a re-action. I don't think anybody wakes up one day and decides to be mean. I think that acting mean and rude is a re-action to some action that someone took on you. Maybe your re-action is being applied to the wrong subject. But try to find the cause of such subconscious reaction. And remember that in love, we all can!
At #160, I guess I've learned stuff about taking care of kids. I don't know. I really don't know much about it. The more I do take care of kids, the more I know that I don't know.
Always be thankful
@Dystopian95 very true ♥ Helps us focus on the postive more
