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User Profile: GlenM
GlenM March 23rd, 2015

Congratulations! You made it to the next level on your growth path. Share with us the #1 thing you learned on this leg of your journey!

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November 2nd, 2015

Level 60. I'm depressed and alcoholic. I have a generally excellent life: great housemates, lovely and trustworthy partner, abundant social opportunities, purposeful and varied work, extreme flexibility in my daily or monthly planning, no ongoing problematic aspects of anything.

I've been trying to log in and talk to a listener sometimes, but then just log off. There's absolutely nothing to say. I'm miserable. I can't take it anymore. I spent the last twenty years hoping that things would get better, and now that I have nothing to complain about, there's still nothing worth living for. I can't imagine there ever being such a thing. Irredeemable.

Lately, as I've been doing this mindfulness meditation, I've been better about keeping my feelings to myself, not letting them spill out on my partner willy-nilly, keeping a straight face. I don't know if that is that related to the meditation. My partner thinks that step one to getting better is "fake it 'til you make it," so he, at least, is thrilled.

User Profile: Roadbuilder88
Roadbuilder88 November 2nd, 2015

Got to step 10 today. MY favorites are the close you eyes, listen, and meditate steps.

User Profile: MrsAshleyMarie
MrsAshleyMarie November 3rd, 2015

@Roadbuilder88, congratulations on making it to step 10! I'm glad the meditation exercises are working for you. Keep up the positivity, and remember we're all here for you on 7 Cups if you ever need us.

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User Profile: TortueDesBois
TortueDesBois November 2nd, 2015

2400 and nothing positive

User Profile: TranquilSkye30
TranquilSkye30 November 3rd, 2015

@TortueDesBois Reaching step 2,400 is something positive :) keep going!

User Profile: CuddlyKitten
CuddlyKitten November 3rd, 2015

@TortueDesBois Nice job TorturDesBois on 2400

User Profile: CaringBrit
CaringBrit November 3rd, 2015

@TortueDesBois great job on step 2400 im sure there is something positive out of that we are here for you

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User Profile: purpleChestnut6524
purpleChestnut6524 November 2nd, 2015

I am learning how to express my emotions in a clear and calm manner.

User Profile: MrsAshleyMarie
MrsAshleyMarie November 3rd, 2015

@purpleChestnut6524, That's fantastic! You're making great progress :)

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User Profile: NumberThirteen
NumberThirteen November 2nd, 2015

This website is something else, it helps me so much! I love it. If I'm having a bad day I know I can always talk to anyone on here! :)

User Profile: MrsAshleyMarie
MrsAshleyMarie November 3rd, 2015

@NumberThirteen, I'm so glad to hear this! We're always here for you if you ever need us. Keep smiling! :)

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November 2nd, 2015

I'm making it.

User Profile: MrsAshleyMarie
MrsAshleyMarie November 3rd, 2015

@SunnyPlane4981, That's great to hear! Keep up the good work :)

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User Profile: NanaB
NanaB November 2nd, 2015

Everyone's amazing on this site, I'm so glad to be here!!

User Profile: Sageypie
Sageypie November 3rd, 2015

@NanaB Yay! Everyone is glad to have you here :)

User Profile: CaringBrit
CaringBrit November 3rd, 2015

@NanaB aww its great to have you here

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User Profile: MyFeathers
MyFeathers November 2nd, 2015

I learned that it's important to live the moment, be aware of yourself and your body. There are many more things to see, hear, feel, ... than I notice because I'm busy, focused on something else or just because it's all routine for me.

So I'll try to be aware of these things every day, as often as I can :)

User Profile: MrsAshleyMarie
MrsAshleyMarie November 3rd, 2015

@Tanja, That's a wonderful lesson learned. Keep living in the moment, and remember we're always here at 7 Cups if you ever need some support :)

User Profile: MyFeathers
MyFeathers November 3rd, 2015

@MrsAshleyMarie Thank you smiley

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User Profile: Mencas
Mencas November 2nd, 2015

I've learned that time can heal but it also can hurt...

User Profile: Sageypie
Sageypie November 3rd, 2015

@Mencas True, it truly depends on how you choose to look at things. Perspective matters.

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User Profile: llileec
llileec November 2nd, 2015

Step 10 ! One step at a time :)

User Profile: MrsAshleyMarie
MrsAshleyMarie November 3rd, 2015

@llileec, Congratulations! You're doing great. Taking things one step at a time is great advice. Keep at it and I know you'll do wonders! :)

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