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Why is it good for you to accept change?

User Profile: plumDrum9800
plumDrum9800 December 11th, 2023

Hey everybody💗

Hope all of you are doing good!

So, i had to ask this question,please answer me😊-

"Why is it good for you to accept change? "

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou December 11th, 2023

@plumDrum9800

That is quite a thought provoking question, very open ended towards many perspectives as different people perceive change differently, also depends on a number of things such as their willingness, acceptance, self-esteem, adaptability, resilience, attitude in general towards the change; kind of change, their past experiences and relationship with change, the impact and magnitude of change (in question) etc., so much that impacts on how they feel about any change (big or small). It is really broad, I feel, since there's so so many contributing factors! 

Personally, I'm not much a fan of "change" in general, I guess having a sense of routine and familiarity creates that comfort zone (and I for one, do not see comfort zone as entirely "negative" or detrimental to someone~ there's both good and bad).

However, what helps me accept change is the realization and acceptance of the fact that change is indeed the only constant, and change is incredibly inevident. We simply cannot work against the forces of life, and certain things we need to make peace with, simply because they are gonna happen, whether we like it or not. 

Along the lines of this, personally, I feel I've a practically-adaptive approach towards things, which supports my resilience towards accepting changes. 

Worth mentioning here, if we don't like a particular change, there's usually another way in store, to change that change, or we can try changing our mindset and perspective about how we feel for a particular change hehe. So, in a way, it's the "change" here again, that helps us cope with another change. Mostly about the mindset, I think. 

Now to answer "Why is it good?"~ because life is short and i don't wanna stay fussing about things forever! Atleast I try not to haha, even if its difficult at times, because hey, totally hooman to find change strugglesome and need time to make your peace with it. 

How about you, what are your thoughts about change, and accepting any changes?  

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User Profile: plumDrum9800
plumDrum9800 OP December 12th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

Thank you so much for answering, i really appreciate it👏.

About my point of view on this topic... I think that embracing change makes many things possible and even if someone doesn't wants to accept the changes then... As you said "there's usually another way in the store"😄i agree with you! 

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou December 12th, 2023

@plumDrum9800

Glad to hear you've got a positive outlook on this too, and of course!😊

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