Positive friends n bubbly ppl
Where are u guys…
this is the most invisible thread to me:(
i dont think they see me
i used to be like you
but i figured it was never good as nobody appreciated it enough
its good to care n its more than okay to be this warm n friendly but I haven’t found any match in others n it was always on my shoulders so I feel like taking step back n not reaching out n not trying to bond w ppl
i see ppl on streets or online n I always have this need to bond or to befriend them but it never works n if it does they quickly get bored of me n leave me like ghosts :(
im not sure why tho
how do u do it???
@livbinny
Hello there🖖
I am also having similar problems, but I am giving it a try... Dont't give up for starters!
@livbinny
I feel you so much, like it also happens to me and like when I see ppl in the classroom or in recess with groups of friends all laughing and being together. I'm always the excluded friend, I have been SINCE PRIMARY SCHOOL even though i've never noticed, one thing my physcology told me is to keep moving, if they dont like you, move and pass, ITS THEIR LOSS TO LOSE A FRIEND LIKE YOU LITERALLY. Also,I also have overthinking thoughts when I'm talking to someone I feel like they don't like me which I personally think it's because of friendship anxiety but a solution would be to overcome the fear of social groups and join them in any possible way
@livbinny hi sweetie ❤ I'm sorry I have been keeping busy, so I'm on and off here at different times so I miss a lot of posts, sorry about that ❤ when you've lost so many people, it really knocks your confidence, trust and self esteem🙁 it's really sad, but I hope you never stop trying I hope you never give up on people altogether. Gives you a giant tiny hug ❤❤
@livbinny what I'm writing right now is solely based on my own experience as a leftover friend and someone that was overly judged, invalidated, criticized, rejected and left behind while working towards, desperatly, for creating bonds and having people to stay in my life.
While you act towards receinving other ppl validations and acceptance, they likely will avoid you and give you negative answers and excuses; at the other hand, when you turn towards yourself and work alone on your goals, interests and everything else you would put effort on achieving other than convincing people to be with you... They seems to magically accept you and find time to reach you.
I don't know why things are like this, I don't know why they work that way and why humans behave in such manner. But is quite like this, at least it was like this for me.
Hope you find what you're looking for and have a nice time. 👋🏻
Also a newbie!! Truly beileive it’s just about building a name and community to yourself
