Finding positives from the negatives
There are times when all we feel is hopelessness and sadness. There are times when horrible experiences makes us angry, tired and what not. There are times when we break down and fall down to deepest point of misery. There are times when life makes us feel we are not good enough or we cant be happy.. There are times where what ifs trouble us more than anything. There is frustration because things didnt come up as we wanted.
Maybe, just maybe we are viewing those times in a wrong way. Maybe, we are seeing only one part of it. Maybe, changing lens might just be what we need. Maybe reflecting those moments and finding positives from the negatives might just be what can help us in path of happiness. 
Those could be seen as the time when you fought and won, no matter how small the victories. Those could be seen as the time you fell down, but you got up. Those could be seen as the times when you learned a lot from the life. Those could be seen as the times you understood that life is not linear. Those could be seen as the time you realised what you were doing wrong and that opens a chance to not repeat those mistakes again. Those could be seen as the time where you grew and evolved as a person. Those could be seen as the time where you learned how many people loved you or cared for you truly. Those could be seen as the time you prevailed, despite the odds.
What is that positive thing that all the negatives brought for you?
We would love to know <3
@River
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I'm still bothered by the fact that people in my life can just leave and abandon me whenever they want - throwing away the great memories and moments we've shared just because of a mistake that hugely impacted our relationship/friendship. It's still hard for me to accept that they chose to just disconnect from me. I feel like it's my fault. But the thing is, that's really bound to happen. I strongly believe that things happen for a reason. I've started to think that maybe the reason why they have to leave is that they just needed to shed a light on me about things that I should be aware of. Maybe they just came into my life just to teach me a lesson. Maybe they just made me learn that they're the ones that I should avoid in the future so I'd know better. Maybe their purpose in my life was just to be a puzzle piece that I can collect so I can be whole and discover myself. That's what I'd like to believe in. I know that it can be scary that we might end up being left alone but what's worse than that is being treated unfairly just because we cannot let go. :)
@Erato
You are strong, stronger strongest Era <3 <3
@River
I love this post! <3
@sklester
Thank you