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User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver September 29th, 2017

smileyHello Lovely Peeps of 7CupsOfTea smiley

This morning, suddenly my Listener account got unapproved. IDK why? Then, I submitted review and account restored but found that my all forum posts created and shared by you all seem like deleted. Disappointing thing for me!

But, then I thought that good thing is that I got my account restored, i.e. I'm with you right here, right now! I got an opportunity!

So, I am grateful for this today!

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User Profile: Cheshire073
Cheshire073 October 25th, 2017

Family stress.

User Profile: Hunza
Hunza October 25th, 2017

Need a vacation

User Profile: BlossomingJasmineLotus
BlossomingJasmineLotus October 25th, 2017

I never realized how many people are hurting on the inside just like me until i read the forum "One word to describe yourself is...." thats whats on my mind. & that i may be depressed & have anxiety and mood issues and anger issues but i am so thankful for my life everyday, no matter how many times i have said i would rather be dead. i love my life & i want to learn to love myself. i love my daughter more then anything & she is the ONLY reason i am here today. That's what i'm thinking right now.

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User Profile: Bamba1609
Bamba1609 October 25th, 2017

@BlossomingJasmineLotus Me too. <3

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User Profile: summer001
summer001 October 25th, 2017

Suicide. Im crying right now and i really want to end my life.. But i love my mom and i dont want her to cry.

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User Profile: Pinacoladasong
Pinacoladasong October 25th, 2017

@summer001Don't do it. Things look bad and feel bad right now, but it's just for a little while. I've been where you are. If not hurting your mom is what keeps you from doing it, cling to that!

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User Profile: summer001
summer001 October 25th, 2017

@Pinacoladasong yes thank you so much i always try to fight with my emotions and show the world that i am strong. I dont share my thoughts to anyone i know because i am so scared that they will laugh at me or they wont understand this roller coaster feeling. I am so scared of people's judgement. Thank you for your advice. I really appreciate it. Thank you

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User Profile: Pinacoladasong
Pinacoladasong October 25th, 2017

@summer001 I really do know how you feel. I lived one minute at-a-time, then worked ny way up to an hour and so forth. I believe in you. You are strong! Talking about your feelings and seeking help says a lot about you. One day you will find that the problem isn't the first thing on your mind when you wake up, not the last when you go to bed and doesn't fill all the space in between. It hurts like heck, I know, but the pain will fade.

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User Profile: pioneeringLime8545
pioneeringLime8545 October 25th, 2017

@summer001 no. Please stay with us. All of us here are also going through pain in one way or another. Just stay pls💝😥

User Profile: considerateTree2184
considerateTree2184 May 11th, 2018

@summer001

I was in the ER on the thirteenth of April for a suicidal crisis. I found a wonderful doctor and little by little I am getting better. Thinking you can't help, but hold your actions.Yes it's painful and so long but life is worth it.

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User Profile: dynamicBeechwood1728
dynamicBeechwood1728 October 25th, 2017

do i even have beliefs or not...

User Profile: WANNAKNOWYOU28
WANNAKNOWYOU28 October 25th, 2017

i want to find someone to express my fellings to and have relationship goals whether its long distance or close by

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User Profile: SweetBubblegum
SweetBubblegum October 25th, 2017

@WANNAKNOWYOU28 I believe you will find someone! Start getting to know more people so you get more likeliness to find someone suitable for you! :))

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User Profile: sereneMemory68
sereneMemory68 October 25th, 2017

I just want to talk to people and make them feel relieved...

User Profile: mauie
mauie October 25th, 2017

im so tired of ţrying to understand whats really happening to me 😶

User Profile: unassumingBeing4389
unassumingBeing4389 October 25th, 2017

Why am I alive?

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User Profile: Pinacoladasong
Pinacoladasong October 25th, 2017

@unassumingBeing4389 Christians believe that we are created to worship God, and help our fellow man. In the midst of all that, I lovr reading, cooking, zumba, giving gifts and organizing closets. You are here because the world needs a YOU. No one else can do that job😊

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User Profile: hollowman84
hollowman84 May 31st, 2018

@Pinacoladasong I like that :-)

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User Profile: pioneeringLime8545
pioneeringLime8545 October 25th, 2017

I just want to remember my value and not try to make contact with my verbally abusive ex. I wanna believe I will find better. This is hard though...

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User Profile: Pinacoladasong
Pinacoladasong October 25th, 2017

@pioneeringLime8545 Why do you want to talk to him?

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User Profile: pioneeringLime8545
pioneeringLime8545 October 25th, 2017

@Pinacoladasong I don't even know. I think the constant cold n hot responses has played with my mind n emotions. If I tried talking n telling him how he affected me he'd shout, I was called 'crazy', 'irritating', 'miserable'. My thing is we can disagree but nit become disrespectful. Yet we had such a great time together. I'm lost and broken... Please help me.

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User Profile: Pinacoladasong
Pinacoladasong October 25th, 2017

@pioneeringLime8545 Aww sweetie, but you weren't having a good time if it ever ended in tears because of how he spoke to you. A healthy relationship has mutual respect. He may have some unresolved personal issues, that have nothing to do with you, that he needs to think about. He won't be a good boyfriend until he does. I know its hard, but walk away. Everything you want to say to him, write it down and mail it to him. Don't txt it because he will respond and suck-you-in. Get everything off your chest and leave it at that. Trust me when I say, he knows you are awesome and one day it will hit him like a ton of bricks. Move on and find the man that will love, respect and adore you. He's out there waiting for you to stop messing with the wrong guy.

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User Profile: Pinacoladasong
Pinacoladasong October 25th, 2017

@Pinacoladasong You are valuable! He can't place value on you nor can he remove it! A REAL man will NOT cause you to question your value, he will cause you to see value in yourself that you didn't see at first.

User Profile: pioneeringLime8545
pioneeringLime8545 October 25th, 2017

@Pinacoladasong thank u so so much. I just have to regain my footing. I regret not walking away the first time he was disrespectful. My friends n family know me as a strong but compassionate person yet i allowed a 7 mth relationship to make me feel empty. I would tell anyone to never move bk their boundaries for anyone. He does have unresolved issues, I asked him to consider counselling. He said no, I had the issues. I said OK NP but u should talk to others respectfully n always aim for good communication. He said i was annoying. What do men really want? I'd leave myself undone just to be there. To listen. To care. I respected him. Smh...

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User Profile: Pinacoladasong
Pinacoladasong October 25th, 2017

@pioneeringLime8545 Everyone wants to love and be loved, but our baggage gets in the way. Focus on what's good for you, not him. If doesn't want to get help you can't help him either. Go do what makes you happy

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