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Finally Ordered My Dad’s Death Certificate…

User Profile: jesusredeemedme2425
jesusredeemedme2425 June 19th, 2024

It took me a REALLY long time to do it. Procrastination and not wanting to do such a morbid sounding thing, thinking it was a phone call which makes me nervous (it was online and only took a few minutes)…


It’s finally done.


Now I will finally find out what my dad died from… Now I wait. Mixed feelings atm… Proud of myself for getting my license today… But he will never know and be proud of me. Proud of myself for ordering the death certificate… But sad because… My daddy’s dead. :(

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User Profile: AffyAvo
AffyAvo June 19th, 2024

@jesusredeemedme2425 Well done on getting that step done. I hope the information you get isn't anything upsetting beyond him dying.

Hopefully knowing that he would be proud also helps you through the grieving process.

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User Profile: jesusredeemedme2425
jesusredeemedme2425 OP June 19th, 2024

I get the feeling it may leave me with more questions than answers…


Would he be?

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User Profile: AffyAvo
AffyAvo June 19th, 2024

@jesusredeemedme2425 I didn't know your dad, but I have seen people have to do all the various things after someone dies. It's not easy. I'm proud of people for getting through it.

As for finding out the cause of death, it's certainly possible it leads to more questions.

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User Profile: LoveMyMoonflowers
LoveMyMoonflowers June 19th, 2024

@jesusredeemedme2425

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sending you massive comfy hugs, if that’s okay. ❤️

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User Profile: jesusredeemedme2425
jesusredeemedme2425 OP June 19th, 2024

Absolutely <3 Thank you :)

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 June 19th, 2024

@jesusredeemedme2425 😥 my heart goes out to you. Did this happen before you joined cups? I'm very proud of you for getting that certificate, it's a task that's not easy to face, you did really well ❤❤ and he does know you got your driving licence, he can see you from heaven, and I'm sure he's extremely proud of you ❤ hugs you tightly ❤❤ I'm always here for you

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User Profile: jesusredeemedme2425
jesusredeemedme2425 OP June 19th, 2024

It was around a year ago. I’m really bad at procrastinating…

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul June 19th, 2024

@jesusredeemedme2425 I'm sorry for your loss *offers safe hugs* ❤️ No matter what kind of relationship you have with a parent - their passing is really hard 

I'm really proud of you! It's not an easy step to take. I have to warn you - just speaking from experience - it adds reality to their passing. I guess that sounds weird maybe. Seeing their name on that official paper - hits hard 😞