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User Profile: Wtfimdoingit
Wtfimdoingit August 21st

I'm not sure what to feel, they left me, as friends it's hard going on

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User Profile: Supporturself00
Supporturself00 August 22nd

@Wtfimdoingit

Dear Beloved,

You feel sad and lonely because they have left you. They are not the only people in this world. The world is full of people, and you can make new friends again.

We cannot control other people. We cannot compel them to stay. It is their choice. Why cause yourself pain because they have decided to leave? You did not leave them. They chose to leave. You are not necessarily at fault. You cannot control their decisions. People come and go, but your life does not have to stop because someone leaves. One should not become so attached to others that their leaving causes overwhelming emotional pain. If they do not care about your feelings, then why keep causing yourself pain because of them?

I truly wish that you find more supportive friends in your life. I also want you to stop hurting yourself because of them.

Please take care of yourself, Beloved. 💕

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User Profile: Wtfimdoingit
Wtfimdoingit OP August 22nd

Thank you for your .message, but it's been 3 years already

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User Profile: Supporturself00
Supporturself00 August 22nd

@Wtfimdoingit
Why cause yourself pain because they have decided to leave? You did not leave them. They chose to leave.
Why continue to hurt yourself for someone who chose to leave. 

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User Profile: Wtfimdoingit
Wtfimdoingit OP August 22nd

Because I'm afraid of being lonely, I wish I was loved, cared for, someone's something, but I never was and never will be, I want to accept that I need to let go but I can't ever feel anything other than pain.

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User Profile: Supporturself00
Supporturself00 August 22nd

@Wtfimdoingit

I truly wish that all your wishes come true. I wish that you are never lonely and that you are loved and cared for.

Please do not feel that you will never be loved. I wish that you experience love in your future.

May you find the strength to accept and heal from your pain. Healing takes time and self-understanding.

I do not want you to continue hurting yourself because of the way others think and behave. I want you to take care of your emotional well-being. Do more of what makes you feel a little better. You have to take care of yourself. If one keeps waiting for someone to come and heal their pain, that person might or might not come. While waiting for that person, please take care of yourself by doing small things that bring you relief.

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User Profile: Wtfimdoingit
Wtfimdoingit OP August 22nd

Thank you ❤️

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