Guilt
I'm grieving silently no one knows ,no one see it ,everybody see that I moved on and I didn't loved my dad , I amnot only grieving but there are alot of other feelings it kill me slowly..guilt, regret , anger .... since day one ,they told me I have to be the one who carry the responsibility of my mother and brother's feelings...I just feel so unseen
@Saramohamed1111
Well we all see you now, thank you so much for sharing your story on here..
You are having such a hard time right now. it's completely normal to grieve in the way you choose to grieve, nobody has the right to judge you.
i am with you, sending hugs to you if it's ok...😇
@Saramohamed1111
It's not up to you to carry the responsibility of anyone elses feelings.
Yours matter too.
Grief hits us all differently, it comes in waves, with many mixed feelings.
Everyone goes through it in their own way.
It doesn't mean you moved on.
Or didn't care.
I have no doubt you loved your dad.
Take some time for you to process.
You cannot do it all alone 💚
The only feelings you have to carry the weight of are your own. I see you. We see you here. 🌹
@Saramohamed1111
I am sorry to hear that you are grieving alone and having to hide your feelings from others. It can be mentally taxing having to pretend to be okay. It sounds like you have been expected to be strong, even though you are facing the same loss as your mother and brother. It is understandable that you would feel unseen. Everyone is concerned about your mother's and brother's feelings, all while disregarding how you feel. You don't have to grieve alone. You have the 7cups community, if it means anything. How long ago did your father pass?
