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User Profile: decisiveField8406
decisiveField8406 August 29th, 2025

I am 23,when I am 21 mom passed away, anf when I am 23,my dad too.. I am eldest daughter and I have a sister , font have close relatives, so much grief, unspokable feelings, just a numb mind,

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 August 29th, 2025

@decisiveField8406

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I cannot begin to imagine what it feels like to lose both of your parents, so young and so close in time!

Grief is so tiring and it hurts!

Sadly there is no timeline!

May they rest in precious peace!

Sending you my condolences and I genuinely hope that you and your sister can be there for each other!

Grief doesn't pass, but it lessens to the point where we live with it!

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User Profile: decisiveField8406
decisiveField8406 OP August 29th, 2025

My mom was in treated for cancer for 5 yrd, we almost accepted her death, and ead in coma for months expecting her last breath, but this month, my father passed away, no diseases diagnosed anf not haf visible illnesses, we happily spoke through phone , anf next day.. My father ead along at hope, I was away from home for a course, doctor said if someone took him to hospital early, hr might be alive , I am freling so much guilt and and thinking I did him wrong , I lost my best friend and my only supporter and caretaker , please god givr me strength to overcome all this and forgive me if I did something wrong

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User Profile: LyndseyDHere
LyndseyDHere August 29th, 2025

I am so sorry for your loss, but please remember you cannot change what has happened.

There was no way you could have foretold these events. It's valid to feel these things but please acknowledge these feelings with kindness towards yourself. Losing both parents at 23 is nearly unimaginable. Lean on your support systems, and if those are lacking reach out, like you are here.

Your parents wouldn't want you to carry their loss as a personal burden. I lost my mom this past December, and that was what got me through my college finals, knowing she would want me to succeed.

Good luck with everything, and if you want to talk more you can message me as well.

User Profile: LyndseyDHere
LyndseyDHere August 29th, 2025

I am so sorry for your loss, but please remember you cannot change what has happened.

There was no way you could have foretold these events. It's valid to feel these things but please acknowledge these feelings with kindness towards yourself. Losing both parents at 23 is nearly unimaginable. Lean on your support systems, and if those are lacking reach out, like you are here.

Your parents wouldn't want you to carry their loss as a personal burden. I lost my mom this past December, and that was what got me through my college finals, knowing she would want me to succeed.

Good luck with everything, and if you want to talk more you can message me as well.

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User Profile: kawasakiKRT400rr
kawasakiKRT400rr August 29th, 2025

@decisivefield406

I am so sorry for your loss. You understand your feelings . I lost my dad to suicide in March and I feel guilty . It’s not your fault idk why the doctor even would say that to you . May they rest in peace. I am so sorry for your loss and if you ever want to talk I’m here as well . Everyone is very supportive here