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User Profile: marmoreal
marmoreal November 13th, 2025
In 1991, I went to the cinema for the first time to see the brand new film, The Little Mermaid. I was 5 years old, and it was not only a (close-to) Christmas treat, but it marked the year my foster parents became my adoptive parents.
Up to that point, and ever since, they have looked after me tremendously. They chose me and stuck with me.
My mum is a saint, both inside and out, but, honestly, my dad and I didn't get along as much as we should have. We clashed. Despite this, I will never forget that it was both of them who took me in, and it was both of them, through good and bad, who cared for me.
Despite the relationship we had, I won't forget Dad's sacrifices for me just as much as my mum's.
Rest in Peace, Dad. I'll look after Mum. You did well in place of another mother and father who are also gone.
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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 November 14th, 2025

@marmoreal

I'm sorry you lost your father 💜💖

I'm glad you can find some peace and healing.

Your mother is lucky to have you 💜

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User Profile: CaringEzra
CaringEzra November 30th, 2025

@marmoreal 

thanks for sharing such a lovely memorie of your dad, relationships can be complex but sounds like deep down you both cared about each other immensely, know you are not alone <3

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