grief over loss my dad
my dad been gone seen November 13, 2023, been two months on January 13 and my dad buried on November 17 2023 his going be two months been buried and don't ever going grief right way still in denial with my dad death and can't stop think about tragic event happen to my dad and Monday and Friday hardest day of week for me Monday he died and Friday he was buried how can move forward from these grief from my dad
@countrygirl9988
I remember how lost I felt when my Dad passed away. I wrote poems and tried to come to terms with it, but it was very difficult. I lost a lot of weight right afterwards out of fear for my health. I would call his phone so that I could keep hearing his voice on the answering machine. I remember he said
This is me, this will always be me, if this is you, leave a message.
He didn't apologize for anything, he was ok with who he was. I learned a lot from my dad.
I am so sorry you recently lost your dad, I know how hard this can be to get used too. Keep your chin up and try to celebrate his life rather than mourning his passing. Remember how proud he is of you!
My sincerest condolences
Blessings, Day
@juliak1968 thanks I love my dad so much remember all good memories had with him i have videos of him talking and photos of him i remember for rest of my life been eating healthy foods and i want live long happy life and my dad want me be happy not sad that he left us beyond and my dad be in my heart forever and he was great man and wonderful father loving husband and amazed grandfather and is legacy live on throught me my brother and niece and nephew for rest of our lives
@countrygirl9988
That was so beautiful!! You can excel with positive powers like you've demonstrated here! I would be just so proud if my daughter spoke like you are now. What a great daughter!!
Blessings, Day
@juliak1968 thanks i love my dad so much he knew had amazed daughter in his life and hope heaven happy how much he is love on earth i miss you dad and one day be with him again
@juliak1968 the loss of a parent is one no one can prepare themselves for. It's a completely different form of loss that hits you in waves as you mourn. When I lost my mum, I realised that it is so important to let yourself feel the pain that your body needs to feel. no one can tell you how you should move past this, that is up tot you whenever you feel ready. I'm always here if you want to talk about it any more.
@allsunshine2754 hi I love my dad so much my dad died on November 13 2023 from massive heart attack been hard two months of my life deal not having my dad in my life know more the holidays and his birthday so hard and he not here for nephew birthday hard thing we as family had deal with my dad be in my heart for rest of my life and see my dad died tragic event in my life I have pstd from my dad death. my dad in hospital bed died or in that casket touch cold hands and tell him final goodbye to my dad and he knew I love him so much had 40 years with my pops.
I'm really sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. It's completely understandable that you're still in denial and finding it difficult to grieve. Losing a loved one is never easy, and the pain can linger for a long time. It's important to give yourself permission to feel and process your emotions at your own pace. Moving forward from grief is a personal journey, and it can take time. Surrounding yourself with a support system of friends and family who can offer understanding and comfort can be helpful. Additionally, seeking professional help from a therapist or grief counselor can provide guidance and support as you navigate through this difficult time. Remember to take care of yourself and allow yourself to grieve in your own way.
@insightfulTime9480 thanks been 3 months seen my dad died I am not in denial no more and I am know in the anger stage right now and anger had everyone in my life anger at my dad side of family how that treat my dad and I am anger at my mom and my brother for push him to hard and anger had my dad for died on us and leave us behind grief rest of are life's and anger at myself not spent more time with my dad and I wish still here and I love him and I miss him too
@countrygirl9988
I can relate with this on so many levels. My mom passed when I was 14 on August 18, 2021.
September 4th, 4 days before my birthday and the first day of school I buried my mom. September 14, 2023 my Grandmother passed.
Sometimes I feel the sadness and pain - especially when looking at photos or seeing things that remind me of them. Sometimes I don't. But I have learned that grieving is different for everyone and will not look the same. Sometimes it can be hard to tell someone is grieving just because of that very fact.
With that I say, I'm sorry for your loss and I wish you peace of your grief journey.
@fkjnco thanks been anger stage of grief right now and still anger at my dad for died still anger at my mom and my brother for push him so hard and anger at my dad family made him died treat him like trash and mad at myself spent more time with my dad I love my dad and I miss my dad everyday
@countrygirl9988 Trust me, I get it. I was so *** at everyone when my mom died. But soon enough, it wont possess you like it does now.
@fkjnco thanks at anger stage of grief anger everyone right and anger at my dad for died leave everyone behind and just anger person right now I miss my dad and I love my dad so much
