The "Perfect Me" dellusion
i felt useless at some point in my life a huge failure so i dicided to change that and made a plan full of courses and diets and healthy routines ... i made a great search about what suits me better ... time management skills, organization tips and so on ... and after i finished this "golden plan" i could not to anything but staring at this to-do list full of tasks ... i thought because it was plenty that i couldn't do anything so i started to erase unnecessary tasks and nothing happened ... after a long period of guilt and feeling useless i discovered that my motives are the problem ... i've always thought that this plan would make me a better person but it turned that i made this plan to meet social expectations and be socially acceptebale ... and that i hated myself so i wanted to change it and this is the wheole problem ...
loving and accepting yourself is the key ...
@amicableBike2449
Hi. Thanks for posting what is going on for you right now. Sounds like you have put a lot of effort in trying to make things better for yourself. And this has led you to the realisation of loving and accepting yourself is the key.
I was just wondering how far you have got with this?
TakeCare
Paul
@amicableBike2449 that is such a revelation and I connect with hat and congratulate you🤗. Go with the flow, follow the saga is what I say...
I am doing the same thing and I'm failing to meet both personal and social expectations
But I'm improving slowly , very slowly , so there's that .