A Fox's Venting Burrow
I wanted to make this space for me to be able to vent or rant about stuff, because I usually feel better after getting stuff out rather than have it kept inside my head on repeat. Some might be rude stuff because I'm human and things can bother me, I don't want to be mean to anyone directly but I feel it's better to let it out in a safe space than keep it eating me up inside.
I don't mind replies
Just saw a post about not calling your pets "it" (or saying you "own" them) because it's degrading and portrays the animal as if it were an object rather than a living being, and it's more progressive and "correct" to use they/he/she. First thought was "yeah, and then there's the moronic teens trying to do the opposite for themselves by using 'it' as a 'pronoun' -_-". The world is so stupid sometimes
Hey :) I hope you don't mind but you popped into my head and I was wondering how things are for you with your family gone and you being alone with him
I hope you've been able to avoid him as much as possible to stay safe
Take care
@mytwistedsoul he's gone now but still video calls me multiple times a day to monitor me and gets mad if I don't answer. Should have known, I'll never be free, still controlling me from afar.
@FoxPrince Wow. Is there anyway you can move? I know it's often not that simple but there has to be some way for you to get away from him. He shouldn't be able to do what he's doing to you. He doesn't own you. You should be able to be your own person
Why does nothing ever go right for me 😔 Even things that were seemingly good end up being for the worse...
I hope I can get this job. I hope things can work out. I hope life doesn't feel so pointless soon.
@FoxPrince
hey Fox Prince
Who is 'he' if you don't mind me asking? Partner? Dad? Sounds like we need to give him the pronoun 'it'? Just a bit of grammatically incorrect humour for ya
i hope you're safe and okay though in all seriousness
@madesound my abusive partner, not really a joking matter. Dehumanizing people isn't too funny.
@FoxPrince
i agree. Bad joke. Was a throw back to your aug 3 post talking about moronic youth, pronouns, pets.....etc
So has he returned from overseas? And i can relate. I was in a physically and psychologically abusive relationship which did alot if damage
i really hope you can get free and heal
@madesound yeah, I get where it came from, just wasn't very appropriate. He's not overseas, still on the same landmass just in another country, and no he's gone long term. Which is nice, but I wish he'd stop trying to control me from a distance with the constant video calls and telling me what I should be doing. I'm hoping within the next month I'll get the courage to tell him I'm done and not let him bully me into staying again
I can't believe my friend's LITTLE brother got married before me, I literally knew him when he was a little toddler, and now he's married somehow, and I'm stuck with years of my life wasted
Yet another example of a person with "DID" being rude and just generally intolerable and an awful person...why is that not surprising in the least
Ugh can children please stop saying their "pronouns" are it/its? Can't believe they actually think they're doing something there but in reality they're just being stupid and harmful. Get off tumblr jfc cesspool of morons
You can't be trans-male and agender, it's literally a contradiction, without being genderfluid/flux or something of that nature, but you don't say you are, so you're really just being contradictory. And all these dumb microlabels, they're so pointless...I can't believe someone would actually use a microlabel to say "no other labels really fit"...then don't use a label, genius 🙄 an "it's complicated" microlabel?? Why, literally why. Attraction really can't be that complicated to be honest. Either you have it, you don't, or you only do based on some preferences/circumstances, so fricking easy. Kids are so dumb, microlabels are such bs and are only bringing down the queer community, I wish they would stop being used and people realise you don't need to explain every minute detail of your experience, literally everyone could have a million microlabels, you're not special by using them, you're just annoying.
I'd like to stop being queer just so I don't have to share a space with dumb teens, particularly this awful influx of dehumanizing "pronouns". Neopronouns were bad enough, I don't know why so many children are latching onto it/its, they are not good, not progressive, and really just scream "I'm so privileged I've never been dehumanised before so I'd like to purposely do that so I can feel included in discrimination" ugh. It's definitely not about reclaiming a term used against us, queer was used as an insult but still essentially meant being lgbt, just that being lgbt was "bad". Being called it has no reference to being lgbt, it's just a way to call lgbt people non-human, and so there is nothing to "reclaim" unless you are agreeing that we are non-human. It's so disgusting and I really hope this passes
Nooo he has awful taste in names for kids I'm gonna cryyy 🤣 Chad??? James? So baadddd
Wow I hate the app. I wrote out such a long vent in a 1-1 chat about something very much not an issue at all (school-related frustration), and it said it couldn't be sent and deleted the whole message....are you for real....do you know how frustrating that is....this used to be only a forum issue and now it happens in 1-1 chats too? Ugh my fault for trying to use the app.