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I'm so angry at him. I know I shouldn't be because we aren't dating anymore or in a relationship. But even as a friend, I would have thought he respected me and missed me enough to make an actual effort to see me this summer. But he didn't make plans and instead, we miss an opportunity to spend time together in a couple of weeks. I have told him how I feel and there is nothing I can do but wait and see if he actually makes plans, but I'm still so angry about it and have to keepo myself from making a snide remark when he talks about his excitement for the end of his contract. I've taken a step back in port 'friendship' but sometimes, I don't even want to message him anymore. I'm tired of texting. Its so impersonal considering what we shared. I'd rather a phone call once a week than text all day every day...but I'm done over functioning and rowing the boat. It hurts too much and allows him to see me as a nurturing and loving 'friend' who will always be there. The ball is in his court...I'm lonely and hurting either way so I may as well allow him the space to step up or out.., :(
@warmheartedHuman2014
You can't make yourself too available for someone. You gotta look away and make other friends
@warmheartedHuman2014
@warmheartedHuman2014
...girl...do I know how you feel. 100. Fuckin. Percent. This is why I'm upset now. For the last 4 nights I've done nothing but twist and turn and cry. Haven't slept and I have anxiety attacks. We're best friends. I've been head over heals for his dumbass for over a year and a half. We go from texting and calling every day and night. Saying I love yous and "wait hold on, ok now we can go to bed"(yeah he said that OVER THE PHONE). We love eachother but then he'd (like now) distances himself. every. God damn time. He leaves. He says goodbye. And it just hurts. So much. I can't keep doing this but I'll die if I lose him or our friendship. I love him and now we're both fucking confused as fuck and now I'm crying again. The prick is sleeping not even giving a damn that he hurt me. Off and on (we never dated but had feelings)(kissed and stuff many times) but over a year and half and all I get sometimes is hurt and the good times out live he bad but I'm so confused and it's just gettin worse. I want him so bad. And he wants me so bad but we just don't. It's killing me
@warmheartedHuman2014 It's totally okay, and in fact it would probably be better, if you cut off contact for awhile. Just for 30 days or so. It seems like he's still controlling your emotions. The time away will weaken the influence he has on your emotionally so that you can start to move on. You can always come back to being friends when you feel he doesn't influence your feelings so much.
@TiffanyH yeah. It's just been really hard for me to get over this...I keep wondering if I did something wrong and why he didn't want a relationship with me. But, to make matters worse, his new girl is joining my ship in a few days and I'm really nervous to have to work with her because it's still fresh for me and I'm about to cry just writing this...I don't want to start crying when a mutual friend introduced us...I'm the only one that knows they are dating.
I kept on making errors at my current job. I always get reprimanded for my mistakes. I hate it even more because I dread my job. I feel that I don't deserve this because I'm just doing some useless shit. I feel that I can't do what I want because everything felt useless to me. I don't do anything with value at all.
Im posting again. Im so tired of trying to find a car and fix the current car I have. I have a vw jetta that is constantly in the shop. On monday i took it to the shop for them to look at (i have an idea of whats going on) and its effing thursday and i still havent even gotten a "diagnosis" of whats wrong! How freaking long does it take??!! I just want to know how much money im gonna have to throw into the money pit that is my car! And ive been looking for a new car for over a week now, and Ive found 2 that I like, one more than the other, but my husband seems to be on the fence about it ( we both would be driving this car) . I feel like this shouldnt be as stressful as im making it out to be, but the past week and a half have been really hard on me emotionally. Im making myself literally sick trying to figure out what to do. I hate having to feel like i need to rush into a decision, but dang, girls gotta get to work somehow! And my husband needs a diffrent car as well (he was gonna drive mine once it was fixed) And I cannot think or focus on anything but car stuff. I am obsessing over it. every waking thought is on cars, but I cant seem to come to a conclusion on anything. I just want the freaking car fairy to come down a be like *boom* heres the car you should have! I feel like adulting is really hard for me lately. I want the car shop to just call me and tell me something! Anything! Even if they say Its not repairable, just freaking tell me!!
And its frustrating b/c this shop was recomended to me by lots of people in the community, so am I just overreacting, or? I want to just cry and have a hissy fit, but im so stressed I cant even just sit down and cry it out! I feel like ive been bottling my emotions up and its breaking me down from the inside out. Sorry for the long rambling post, just needed to let some of the thoughts out
@comealongpond1988 adding to todays stresses, today at work (retail) a customer pointed out to me that there were ants on some of the clothes. so I called over my team lead, who was grossed out and took the clothes off the floor. Then she told the manager and do you know what the manager said to do? Put them back out on the floor!!!!! WTF???!!! Thats disgusting! Shake ya clothes out people! That makes me so frustrated, why would you do that!?
My children are frustrating me. They get into EVERYTHING & thethem they complain about the consequences. I'm sorry you lied, but yobecause you did, you lost 9$ of allowance. Not my fault. Oh, you hit your brother, okay. Oh he hit you back? Good job son. She pulled your hair in retaliation of you pulling hers? Good for you. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. I want to lock myself in my room & let you run amuck. Hubby gets home & sort of assists. But then he promises to assist with me working out & when I want to run by myself, "don't go, it's not good to run in the heat." We LIVE in a desert special, special individual. Are you really that dense? Really?!
@tealThinker7834 Well can I tell you something? No matter how irritating your kids may get, you should cherish them b/c there's some women like myself who have problems getting pregnant and even holding the baby w/o eventually having a miscarriage. You are very lucky to have kids. Husbands .. they're another story. lol
I'm angry at my management at work.I know I might sound dumb, but it's how I feel. I am relatively a fresh graduate and I work for a multinational IT corporate. My team is distributed across different countries, I'm the only one in my country, the least experienced my team and the least trained, as I only got chance of self learning online trainings, unlike my more experienced well trained colleagues.
Lately there has been a work load, as many went on vacations or trainings and i had to cover.
This is making me angry.
I had some difficulty passing in my first two years at college. This was associated by family mocking me for failing. I worked hard to pass college, get a scholarship and find a good job. I really proved all the mockers wrong, but this situation triggers all of this pain, anger and frustration.
I might have succeeded but deep down am still angry teen who's terrified to fail. It worth mentioning that I was physically disciplined as a kid, so there's always been some anger there.
I feel like I am constantly trying so hard. Making progress. Something seems right, going good, I am finally heading in the right direction. Then I talk to someone and they point out how I seemed to very abruptly change what I want to do in my life and they were concerned and when I tried to reassure it's because it felt right, I wasn't believed. I explain how I talked to someone about something that bothered me and I am told it wasn't my place to be upset. If I am so incompetent about my own decisions in life why the fuck do I do anything at all. Everyone is always worried. "You did this, but that's concerning because you used to do this", "You got upset over this, and you addressed the problem, but it wasn't even a problem to begin with". I feel like everyone thinks I am so irresponsible with my decision making that they fear any decision I make. I feel good about the direction I'm going, but no one believes me. They don't believe in who I am and what decisions I make for myself. Like I am lying to myself and they are trying to get me to catch myself doing it. I don't want to question choices I make but if everyone else is questioning me, am I really doing something wrong here? No one seems as critical of others as they are of me. Why? Can I really not even be trusted with my own life? Or am I just allowing the critics to have free reign and that's why they so fiercely seem to only come for me? Or am I just talking myself up to thinking I am being targeted?
I feel really upset and angry right now because someone from <edited by KristenHR for inappropriate language> Morocco hacked my Facebook account for drug dealing and I don't know anymore if to male a new account or not, but I decided not to😳. I cried because all I used on fb was to be "famous" or just for fun. I just had 1,000 followers yesterday and I really don't know why this happened to me today. I don't care but I <edited by KristenHR for inappropriate language> hate people from Morocco. <edited by KristenHR for threatening comment>
I'm posting this on account of my own actions. I yelled a family member and I feel horrible and I'm just so friken mad that my anger hurts people including myself. I guess I'll try to find out if I can be helped but I don't know what to do or say I'm lost and confused here. I'm positive no one aside from God cares about me and I found out that it's true the truth hurts I am miserable inside and I don't think that I can take it anymore I try to fix myself it's a joke well world laugh at me all you want
@compassionateEast1864
I'm sorry compassionate that you are hurting. I'm sure being angry and hurting people with your anger takes a toll on you as you have mentioned. There is hope for dealing with anger though. It takes a lot of work, but lots of people move past letting their anger be hurtful. It's really brave that you shared here and talked about your situation and wanting to do better. Try not to be hard on yourself while you figure things out. I'm glad you're here.
I was on the highway at night and a driver in my blindspot didn't have their headlights nor dash board lights on.
She was busy scrolling through her phone.
Before losing sight of her, I noticed her car had a new driver badge on it.
Doesn't she care that she could potentially kill or injure people including herself?
I started getting mad at the thought of her and began thinking she could've gotten her license through bribery.
In an apartment complex neighbours dog is left home alone all day, I'm home alone all day all I hear is this dog literally sound like its dying alll day long even after complaning to he super that this has been going on four almost a year. I'm still listening to it I've tried to call the police but no one can do anything unless the owner is home. The dog never barks when they are hoooome I'm trying to quit my drug of choice and I'm gettin sooo frustrated with his situation. The dog follows the noises I make followin. Me barking from one end of he apartment to the other feels like fucking torture
