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*rant begins*
A friend of my GF is pissing me off, spitting on and disrespecting me and hers relationship. Regardless of how many time she tell him, there is nothing between them two and to knock off the sexual and flirtatious acts, he continues anyways, touching and kissing her, among other things. I've done my best, given their history together to let them have just a friendship since she has no feelings for him, knowing that their romantic relationship was over, and had been over for years, but he is not on the same page. It continues to seem like he still has feelings for her, and I don't know how much more i can take of his s**t and disrespect to her and me. It needs to end.
*rant over*
@Wesley93 You're not wrong for feeling that way. you should tell your girlfriend how you feel. She must do her part to make you feel secure in the relationship.
I love my mother, but she keeps making the same bad choices in her life. I want her to go to therapy to deal with her past hurts from divorce and other problems, but she has found excusees not to for years. I know in my head that you can't force someone to change, but it's painful to watch her go down this destructive path of hers time and time again without understanding what she's doing.
I just want into the eating disorder program!!! I hate insurance crud.
I get so freaking mad because my parents get angry with me because I don't like talking with strangers, but they know I have social anxiety. They always try to make me talk to people in public to ask questions and stuff, but then i get all shaky and sweaty and I can feel my heart beating so fast. It frustrares me. And it's not like I can go and tell my parents "No, I don't want to do that" because then they say "We give you everything you ever want and you don't want to do this one thing? You selfish brat." So I'm kinda stuck being sweaty and shaky in front of strangers. And I really don't know what I'm supposed to do.
@sea0601 I know the feeling. My parents are immigrants, and whenever they need something I'm the one to talk to everyone because my English is better than theirs. Yet I'd rather rip my own tongue and ears rather than speak with strangers.
Feeling frustrated with a tinge of anger. I don't understand how and why people lack empathy. Why do so many people think that the world revolves around them?
@selfdisciplinedBalloon6940
I guess most people, especially in larger cities, loose some empathy because they see so many people every day that they would run out of empathy before the day is over.
As for egotistical things, people are like that, "What can make me better off?" and such.
@Gen2 You made a good point
You wanna know why I'm angry? Well honestly my only answer would have to be, I'm angry at myself other then that I don't know. Every day of my life I feel hatred and anger seeping out of every pore in my body. I'm angry all the time. I've hospitalized a buddy of mine because he said something I disliked and I regret it. That is why I am angry.
@Rileynottelling
Ever considered martial arts? A lot of people (Me and my father included) have anger issues, and martial arts at least set it to a level where we're more aware of the body and where not to hit or where to hit as a form of warning-shot.
Bad day with a distant relative whom I have never met who called me horrible names and told me that I was not part of her family anymore because of disagreeing with her on Facebook. I am very tired of listening to the hate. Why can't we just love everyone?
@bestVase7265
Love is a strong emotions, it's why most people reserve it for special people only.
Depending on your arguments (Maybe it was political in nature?) She saw you share views with someone she didn't like. It sucks, but that's the way it is today, try to just block and move on if someone calls you things because of tiny things, because sadly that's the only legal thing to do.
I'm angry because I'm alone in this world not one person cares about me only my cat and dog do my angelsI'M ANGRY MY FAMILY MAKES ME HURT MYSELF I TOLD THEM I'M SUCIDAL AND I SELF HARM I'M TOLD IT'S GONNA PASS I HAVE BEEN THIS WAY SINCE I WAS LITTLE LIKE 6 I HATE EVERYONE BECAUSE EVERYONE HATES ME
@Mae1995
Hi there, I can feel how angry you are. I want you to know that putting that anger out there and sharing it is a great first step. I want you to know that you are perfect just the way you are. Our community is here to support you. Keep fighting, don't give up & talk to someone who can help you better understand yourself & your situation. In addition to our incredible team of listeners, 7 Cups also has onsite therapists who may be able to. Check it out here.
Sending you a hug!!!
@Laura
thank u for the support
I think I am queer, and quite frankly i don't know what to do with the information. I dont have the need to come out to anyone really, simply because I don't feel confindent enough in myself or in my friends. I live in a tiny town with very LGBT-phobic people, so it wouldnt nesscarily be worth even coming out with alll the pain I will go through. I told my mom that I may be queer, and she has recently fallen very ill and doesnt recognize me and is very distant and angry with me all the time. She is my best friend, anf the way she treats me makes me endlessly angry. On top of all my teenage hormones, I'm staring in a new school and I don't really like any of my friends and I think I'm falling into depression again. Thanks for listening, but I just wanted to say that. Sending love to everyone who's dealing with similiar things I am xx
@sgw14 Can really relate to you my Mum died rejecting me.😓 Now my dad has Dememita. ..
@sgw14 I wish I could hug you. I have a teenaged son and he recently told me he isn't sure if he likes guys or gals or both. I told him I loved him no matter what and I'm always going to. Regardless of who he loves that will never change my love for him. That's what your mother should've told you what she may be afraid of telling you. Know that where you are from can always change but never change who you are. Love yourself before you love anyone else. Know that there are many people that will love and accept you abundantly. I don't know you or your woes but I do know that we all need love and acceptance. I accept you and send love to you.💜💜💜💜
@sgw14
Hey, I'm sorry that you're dealing with all of that. I can understand that completely. Just keep in mind that you don't have to come out if you don't want to. People are not entitled to your personal life, and at the end of the day, your safety is what matters.
I'm sorry that you're having a rough time with your mother. I hope she gets better, and possibly with time, she can be more accepting. My mother had wanted to kick me out of the house for being gay and wouldn't allow me near my younger sister for a while. Eventually, she became more accepting and is even at a point where she's been asking about my girlfriend. Things always have the chance to get better, even if it seems bad now it may not always be that way. Stay tough and stay safe.
I feel so angry when someone try to control my life like telling what I need to do or how to dress etc