Dramaticizing to Feel Heard
I don't like that I feel like I have to make a big deal of some things just to be seen and taken seriously. I also have always felt that people shame me for even trying to speak up.
I guess that is why they say "the squeaky wheel gets the oil"? But then why do some people think shaming the wheel into shutting up will work? It's a wheel. If there is a problem, it has no choice but to squeak.
@BusyBird
I don't like that I feel like I have to make a big deal of some things just to be seen and taken seriously. I also have always felt that people shame me for even trying to speak up.I guess that is why they say "the squeaky wheel gets the oil"? But then why do some people think shaming the wheel into shutting up will work? It's a wheel. If there is a problem, it has no choice but to squeak.
I can understand why it doesn't feel good when you have to make a big deal to get attention and taken seriously, and it's a terrible thing that anyone can do to others by shaming them for opening up, you aren't just stopping them from sharing now but giving them a wound that'll last a life time, it is a very painful situation so please don't let these fools hurt you 💛💛
You deserve to share and open up too 💛💛
@sereneMango2512 Thank you 💛 You deserve too 💛💛💛 And you are right. It's a deep wound and it is hard to heal. I hope I never make anyone feel that hurt like I do.