Mom critcized me today
I said I wouldn’t be a great mother and my mom agreed that I’d be the worst mom. Since I’m lazy and I don’t take initiative. I guess I don’t know if I will be a great person or a great mother. Not that I want to have kids. Sometimes I don’t know if I could change. But maybe it’s me since I have no friends or anyone to talk to. I’m just unhappy with life. And later say I’m a terrible driver that also. What if I had the chance to sever ties but then I will truly be alone. Just living in isolation. I guess I’m just meant to be alone.
@jadedhue I'm sorry you have to hear that kind of negat8talk from someone close to you. That must have been difficult to hear. But please-- don't take it to heart!
How can you know what kind of parent you will be if you're not one? Parenting is one of the hardest jobs there is. What I have noticed is sometimes the things people expect out of others tend to be the opposite. The expected "good" ones shock people and not in a good way. The ones people speak down on ofen times break the cycle and do things differen to be better than what they grew up with. Really it's all individual choices.
Who really can say what a "good" parent is? Because even the ones who try their best still feel like we failures and still don't think their best is good enough. Just be a good person. Not perfect, but a person who strives to do good. One who is kind to others, loving, helpful, considerate, mindful, etc. Just try and be the best version of you and don't let people tear you down!
Know who you are and your value and what you have to offer. Someone will notice the good in you. You deserve to be loved. Wishing you all thw best in your life. Take care.
@jadedhue
Your mother is wrong! 💙
