It's normal to overspill sometimes. I don't like being vulnerable either. I hope it worked to clear your head though.
Sometimes I retreat for a bit, return and think well, I was trying to help myself and that's a good thing :)
@ScrabbleBrain That's a positive way to view it ^-^ Sometimes it can be nice to get it out.
I seem to have this quirk where I pour my heart out and then regret it later. O_o
@BusyBird I can relate to that, bit overexposed and not sure if people will judge or react kindly.
I just share small bits and see. It takes courage to be vocal though :)
@ScrabbleBrain It sure does ^~^
Thank you (:
I go back and delete everything. Happens all the time
@independentNest5418 I might have to do that too. I couldn't find a delete button, but I heard you just have to flag your own posts. I'll try that next time.
Me too but I always remember that no one is ever gonna know who I am.
I love the fact that I’m just a stranger among a hundred other strangers.
I can rant and rave and complain and yet no one will ever be able to look me in the eyes and tell me ‘I know’.
It makes me feel a little lonely sometimes but I think the relief of being able to say all the things in my head is worth it
@Malecfan Me too! I mean, sometimes I crave the more "intimate" (for lack of a better word) interactions that come from being completely transparent about who I am, but anonymity is appealing for a reason.
And we can rant to as many people as we want this way I think lol
@BusyBird i relate to this if i can manage to share and then parts of me delete it which feels lonely. i hope u can feel more secure in the future about sharing and this doesnt stop u from sharing
@ConstellationSystem Awww. I hope so for you too! You're right. It gets very lonely. I keep telling myself it's about who you open up to (or where).
@BusyBird u deserve to feel heard without any “well but”s or whatever. Your feelings and your experiences matter. People sometimes say no one will care as much as you about ur hurt but I actually disagree I think we can all understand everyone matters a lot. I hope 7cups can be a place u feel free to speak and get acknowledged.