Some day to day struggles
Hello everyone!
Thank you for looking at my post.
I want to share some thoughts of mine, maybe someone will resonate with anthing and will share some thoughts of theirs in return.
I don't usually share what is on my mind as I find it unuseful and unhelpful. I also don't usually ask for help because I don't want to be a burden. Doing research I found out that I can have avoidant attachment and it also can lead to feeling of loneliness because of avoiding interactions.
I want to ask you if you also feel lonely sometimes and if you find it hard to reach for help at those times.
I don't know how often is okay to reach to people when I miss them. I also don't find the motivation to lead my own life because everthing I do seems meaningless.
I am on my way to improve myself. I want to be a better member of te comunity and to be able to help and to get help from people.
Sending hugs to everyone who needs it 🫂<3
@iulika5977
I relate to some of this for sure. You're not alone. My attachment isn't secure and I do experience feeling alone and have difficulty reaching out at times. What's great though, is you have the awareness of what's happening. And that means you have a choice. You can do it scared -- asking for help or reaching out to a friend/someone that's safe. What's helped me is reframing the reaching out and vulnerability as a low stakes action, because for me what I want to avoid is getting hurt.
Sending hugs back your way too, and thank you for your honesty and vulnerability. You're showing up for you 💗
@gongoozlersoup19 thank you a lot for kind words 🫶
@iulika5977 Hey, sorry you're feeling this way. I totally get it and appreciate you being so open and sharing your thoughts. I've definitely struggled with loneliness and overthinking (especially when it comes to social situations), as well as feeling lost in life/not knowing what to do with myself. It can be really hard to manage, but I want to remind you that no matter what, you are always so incredibly loved and precious. You're not alone and you're not a burden. Don't worry too much about reaching out to people or asking for help; a lot of the time, they'll really appreciate it (especially if they've been feeling lonely or uncomfortable reaching out too)! Just take it easy, and keep taking action/being consistent because then success is inevitable! Sending you so much love, hugs and prayers 💖💖
@xsoupyplants12 Thank you so much, I will totally keep taking action 💛
@iulika5977 Of course!! So glad I could support you, please feel free to reach out whenever you need it 💕 I'm rooting for you!!