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Am I on the asexual spectrum?

User Profile: WaterChillies
WaterChillies February 6th, 2019

Hi everyone. I have been questioning for the past 6 months whether I am somewhere on the asexual spectrum. I know I have never felt sexual attraction (and possibly romantic attraction, but I

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User Profile: Rivercat22
Rivercat22 February 7th, 2019

@WaterChillies hello ! Not sure if this is helpful for you ?

User Profile: AMusicalSilence
AMusicalSilence February 7th, 2019

Hi @WaterChillies smiley It sounds as though it is very possibly you may be on the asexual spectrum! As it is a spectrum, some people do find that they eventually experience sexual attraction towards a particular person under certain conditions - they might identify as demisexual, for example. I know we tend to want to find the right label immediately, but the fact is that anything could happen, there

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User Profile: Trespaiseslindos
Trespaiseslindos February 13th, 2019

@AMusicalSilence,

I really like what you said about changing labels. When I came out decades ago, a label was really important to me to feel I belonged. I now have a young family member who has dated both boys and girls. I kind of love that she rolls her eyes when people ask how she identifies. There is no rush and no forced commitment. She knows that whatever label she chooses - even if it's none at all - is fine. Thanks for this message.

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