Dealing with homophobic parents...

I'm sorry if this shouldn't be on this thread but I'm very distressed...

So for some background i indentify as a cis female, so far I'm Asexual but Panromantic. Very cheesily romantic. I've had crushes on a lot of different people and I've felt this way for a while (I'm a teen, also)

So in october i met this adorable girl through similar intrests (we're to die for the same show, and aspiring artists and writers) she's literally the most incredible thing in the world and she was so kind and gentle, and I quickly fell in love with her. In march she confessed her own feelings for me and we kinda spent some time in a love limbo before i asked her to be my girlfriend two weeks later!

However, we're online friends. Nonono don't worry we've video chatted and everything and she's a-ok and who she says she is! And she lives a state above me so we want to meet. And I am somewhat scared of my mom but I want her support very bad. She says we can meet but she doesn't know we're in a relationship.

Basically, what ended up happening was me and my mom had a very emotional day today, it's a long story but i ended up letting it slip that I liked girls. I explained to her that i wasn't sexually attracted but liked romantic relationships. Normally I'm not very cuddly at all but with my girlfriend I flirt constantly (in a good way, bad pickup lines) i compliment her, drive everyone else in the discord server we're in crazy from all tge 'ily's and hearts we send. I've helped her through some stuff when nobody else would, and vice versa. I didn't tell my mom who it was or that I was even in a relationship, because I backed down when she said she'd never support me in a same-sex relationship. She said I didn't know what I was doing and I was going to go into chaos for being lesbian (not even because of being made fun of or anything, just by being les) and she insists that I don't love any girls and im just confused (discord people will say otherwise) and how she's going to pull me out of all these programs I'm in (I am homeschooled and if I'm not in those I'm not with anyone) and how se kept saying that it was ok and that she was gonna fix me and she said it was the internet corrupting me so she was gonna take it away, how i was a sinner for being who I am??? (Shes super Catholic) and how she was so mad at me and she was clearly very ashamed of me... She's completely baffled to as of why I'm mad as well... She kept saying that it was so severe like it was the end of the world... Also that a lot of hate crimes didn't happen, so... Also this is the tip of the iceberg of all the things she said but this is already long enough

I would talk to my gf about this, but she just left to go to a mandatory camp and then elsewhere for 2 weeks and I'm just... Not sure what to do or how to handle this...

My mother is also pretty stubborn and also probably will not change her mind, and also is very good at not handling situations well... She might relax a bit but will still be unsupportive... And I completely love my girlfriend with all my heart and would 100% fight for this girl. If someone took the time to read all of this, or even click thank you so much by the way. And even more if you left any kind of comment of support, tysm 💕🌈