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User Profile: Meleslynda5
Meleslynda5 August 22nd, 2025

New and old, that is to get that out. My feel is, I’m not male but not female. Find my self always thinking about if I was a female, if I would be the same as I feel or would it be different. As I have always have said, I hate guys but love females and I would be a lesbian if that would come true. 

What I am looking for is understanding what I am feeling and some input from real people and not fake people.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 August 22nd, 2025

@Meleslynda5

Welcome to seven cups 🥰

I can see you are struggling, and searching for answers and where you fit in, it takes time, and being considerate with yourself. Thank you for trusting us here to share a little part of yourself with us. I hope you get the genuine support that you need here 💜💕

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User Profile: Meleslynda5
Meleslynda5 OP August 22nd, 2025

Will take what you said and think very deeply about it and thank you.

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User Profile: Aayla
Aayla August 22nd, 2025
@Meleslynda5 navigating gender identity and sexual orientation can be tough and confusing, but that's only because society reinforced stereotypes and gender roles so hard that it became difficult to think outside them. Don't worry, you're not alone in this struggle!
The thing is, only you can define who you are, so no one can tell you whether you're right or wrong. If you feel like not a man nor a woman, for example, you might define yourself as non-binary. 
As for your orientation, it's ok that you live women and I hope you can find the right person for you if that's what you wish! If you are a non-binary person attracted to women, you can still define yourself as lesbian. Plenty of non-binary people do so. But at the end of the day, your definition is totally up to you!
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User Profile: Meleslynda5
Meleslynda5 OP August 22nd, 2025

With society and all that people do and say to people that follow there own path, we have to be strong and willing to stand where we are and not to retreat.

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User Profile: RainbowRosie
RainbowRosie August 22nd, 2025

@Meleslynda5

Hiya and welcome.

Navigating identity is such a personal thing but there’s some lovely folk here on 7 Cups so I’m sure you’ll receive good support 🌹

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User Profile: Meleslynda5
Meleslynda5 OP August 22nd, 2025

Just to say thank you for being here. Read your post and will follow what you have posted.

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