Gay man with feelings for a friend
So first time on here. So not that long ago me and partner(6 years) moved in with some friends to a share house at the time I was really anxious about moving but wasn't sure why but since moving in them I've developed some feelings for one them not love but lust he keeps popping up in dreams and I'm finding it difficult to be around them I don't know what to do its driving me crazy and not having anyone to talk to about this is driving me mental anyone able to chat with me about this or offer some advice
I see, it must be a difficult time for you... First of all, don't feel guilty about it: it doesn't mean you don't love your partner. It can happen to anyone to feel very attracted to someone on a physical level. Romantic and sexual attraction are two separate things, and since we're human, it's totally possible for us to feel attracted to more than one person regardless of our feelings. I don't know how your relationship with your partner is going, but I suppose you could try to work on your relationship and dedicate time to one another, to revive the bond and the passion between you. It may be a good time to try new things, sexual or not, so maybe as you feel your bond getting stronger, you may feel your attraction for the other guy becoming less pressing. I wish you the best with all of this!
