Scared of boyfriend leaving me
I'm currently in a relationship with this guy and we click on so many levels. But recently I found out that we have the same sexual position. We are both bottoms. He said he used to be a versatile but recently feel more comfortable being a bottom. He knows that I'm a bottom and he still pursues the relationship regardless. I can definitely try to switch with him, but I'm not confident in my topping ability. I'm scared that few years in the future, he'll leave me for someone who can top him better. Because I've seen so many relationship because one party feels inadequate in their sexual life.
Your fears are understandable, but you've just found out about it very recently. You're still figuring out how to handle all of this, and apparently you're both committed to making things work! When there's love, open communication, and mutual efforts to make things good for both, there's always a good chance of things turning out fine. So take your time, try things out, give yourself a chance to explore new things. No one is born perfect, we all have lots of things to learn, but you can learn together! Surely he won't expect you to be a perfect top straight away, so it's way too early to worry about this. There are so many couples who can find compromises, learn new things, find their own balance to make things work. You can be one of those couples too!
@patientKiwi7647
Dont worry. I'm a bottom, and I hid it for many years, being a top isnt so hard
You can make it work. Pound it good and enjoy your love life lol
