Need help, a little confused
So I am a girl, I have been with my SO who is a man for 6 yrs. And I've always considered myself straight. I've liked men for as long as I could comprehend what sexuality was. But recently I've been questioning my straight sexuality. In highschool I went through what I called my lesbian phase because I was super attracted to a lot of the girls around me. But when I actually tried doing anything with girls like touch/kiss, ect. I didn't really like it. So that's when I was like okay I think I'm for sure straight. So fast forward to now. I still very much love my SO and I'm gonna stay with him till the day I die and all that happy good stuff. But recently I've been finding myself super attracted again to other girls. And that phase I feel like has been coming back. Everytime I see a beautiful woman I'm like omg she can get it. And I'll tell myself like dang I would love to do a lot of things with her! But then I think back to how things were in highschool and I tell myself that I might not actually be as into girls as I think I am. So idk it's very confusing. I feel like I could be Bisexual but at the same time I don't know if it's just another random phase I'm having. But anywho yeah that's what's going on with me.
@NovaCat227
I completely relate to what you are experiencing. Sometimes, I feel like I'm 100% straight, sometimes I only want to be with girls, and sometimes in between. After talking with some friends, I discovered how common this really is. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you or what you are experiencing. Sexuality is fluid and can change over time. If you don't feel like any one label fits you right now, don't feel pressured to pick one. Being unlabeled is valid! Humans are dynamic and everchanging and weren't designed to be put in boxes :) I'm unlabeled and a few of my friends are too. You aren't alone <3
@littleZebra7172
also, another thing I forgot to add, it is totally possible to be a woman in a relationship with a man and ALSO like women. Being with a man doesn't also doesn't make your attraction to women any less real. Conversely, your attraction to women doesn't make your relationship any less real.
