Questioning Gender identity
Hi so I’ve been trying to figure out what my gender identity.
(TW transphobia/ homophobia)
I honestly have no clue what the term for what I am is because I’ve never heard of someone who feels the same way. I was raised as a female but I don’t really feel like one or a male either I feel kinda In the middle but there are days when it’s fine to be more feminine/ be a female and other days where I can’t stand my body using a weighted blanket to try to rid the feeling. I think what I hate the most is the fact that to others I’m a girl and they only use she/her for me but it feels so wrong being called a girl or the pronoun thing I can’t stand it but how the heck do I explain that I’m not any gender while simultaneously being more feminine sometimes while more masculine/ androgynous at others. I mean it’s not like I can come out to my father since he’s all “you are either a boy or a girl and it’s what’s in your pants”(don’t believe his *** you are you.) I just really want to understand who I am and if anyone has been in a similar boat. If anyone knows/ has had a similar experience feel free to share!
@TaylorTheFrog first of all I'll give you a giant tiny hug ❤❤ and your dad is half right I guess. You are you, and no one else. You are what you want to be whatever feels right for you. You don't need to decide rn, or explain yourself to anyone. Tell them to mind their own buisness. I've met a few people here who have the same issues as you. So please know your not alone in this ❤❤ you don't have to pick girl or boy, you are you, and a awsome version of you too
