Where are enby’s? - lil rant story

@Marz222

i used to consider myself nonbinary, now i consider myself genderfluid but i almost feel like the dysphoria is worse :') i understand how you feel though. especially when you have to take a shower it feels so horrible because you're kind of forced to see a body you don't really wanna be in no matter what. something i've always been insecure about whether im feeling like a boy or a girl or somewhere in between or nothing at all is my voice. its a horrible mix because its too deep to always sound like a girl but too high to be a boy. i swear when i talk i sound like a prepubescent little boy and i always cringe when i hear it on video. i never really found support in my family but i remember at my horrible birthday sleepover that my friend and my gf ending up going to we were sitting outside on a few logs around a fire and my parents decided to start an argument about my gender and as i sat there and tried to ignore them my friend and my gf both stood up for me and answered their questions that they knew i was clearly uncomfortable with. im not close with that friend anymore but im still dating the same girl and she has been so important in finding myself. she gives me constant support and love and as long as you get that from one person that's kind of all you need. so just find your person. as for dysphoria there's never really a solution except within yourself, especially as an enby kid and a genderfluid kid just do what makes you happy, for me no matter what im feeling i love painting my nails. when i feel like a boy i love dressing baggy and in street clothes and i kind of forget about my chest and when im a girl i embrace my feminine features more. so just do what makes you happy and feel good and you forget about the things that make you feel bad. find the things that make you love yourself. gender dysphoria is something you have to find yourself, find the root of it and then find the things that make you feel like yourself. <3 hope this helps

@Marz222 hi there! i’m not non binary, but i fall under the trans umbrella too! i would love to chat with other trans people! chest dysphoria sure can be awful, and i know for one that i struggle with it too. i’m down to share binding tips if you want! 

@Marz222 My pronouns are he/they and I only came out to one of my friends and I'm going through some of the things you said so I can talk if you want.

@Marz222 hey. i go by janey or LJ. i'm gender nonconforming, and i've felt this way practically most of my life. i grew up being treated as a girl, but i never felt quite connected to the label. i now realize this is a factor of my autism and i'm owning it as much as i can. i feel connected to the nonbinary label but i also think my identity is a lot more fluid than that. i wear clothes that make me feel comfortable, and only have long hair because i think it's pretty. it too a while for me to accept my identity , *** at some point i was so sure i was trans beause i just didn't feel connected to my gender at all. i'm now a proud gnc lesbian(still figuring it all out, it's a process). but if you take anything away from my ramblings it should be to organically learn to love yourself for who you are, and who you turn out to be as you grow. have self-compassion and don't be boxed in by anyones expectations of who or what you are<3 stay proud

I'm non binary <3