Fellow non-cis people, do you use Sir/Ma’am/Mir/etc to address people?

Curious on what y’alls perspective is on this because I don’t and I can’t put in terms why (besides potentially misgendering people I don’t know). All I know is it makes me uncomfortable, and I know that’s a good enough reason to not use them, but I’m around someone who doesn’t understand why I don’t and it would be helpful to be able to explain it. I’m also just curious in general and would love to hear y’alls thoughts!