Hair/skincare advice
Hi!!! Im Aly and Im a trans girl. I havent started on HRT yet (because the medical system sucks ***) but I want to start 'feminizing' myself.
One of the most important things I want to learn to control is my hair. For context, I have a VERY curly hair, so even when I grow it out it just expands like a helmet in my head, so I was wondering if there were any products like a conditioner or something I could use as a routine to straighten my hair. I already have a very long hair, but its so curly that it always keep a boyish style.
Also I've no idea of skincare, I dont know what kind of products I should use to make my skin smoother.
Thanks in advance <3<3<3
@AlyOneDay
Hey there. Curly hair needs special love and care. For starters, you can look up curl cream or mousse to accentuate and hold the curls. Use a paraben and sulphate free shampoo. If you like your hair straight, then you can get them straightened or do it yourself. But I believe in honouring the original hair. I've straight hair for example and I like to keep it that way. I occasionally Will blowdry and give myself soft waves. 1 tip for you is start wearing a bonnette to bed. Your curls won't be ruined and the hair won't get tangled this way.
I've attached a gif for you!
Before you start with skincare, make sure you know your skin type. Do you have a oily T-zone? Is your skin dry? Look up videos on YouTube that teach you how to test your skin type- oily, dry, combination. I always recommend getting a primary skincare routine in place from a dermatologist if you'd like. Or start with basics- cleanser, moisturizer and sunscreen (SPF 50 PA+++). Never skip your sunscreen. It should be an everyday staple. Exfoliate once in a while as and when needed. Lip care- use a lip balm when your lips feel dry or chapped. Don't smack, lick or bite your lips. Grooming is also necessary. Body lotion for the skin as per climate and skin concerns.
Good luck!
Thanks a lot!!!
I'll definitely look into the creams and those types of shampoos! I also like my curly hair I just want it to be a bit 'less curly' so it looks longer. And I'll buy a bonnette too!
I'll start with the basics in skincare and then look more into it and into my skin type.
Thanks again <3<3<3
@AlyOneDay
Sounds good. It's always nice to embrace your natural self. Medium curls are fun too. Maybe different drying techniques can do the trick.
Another hack I swear by, ice facial. Whenever I get acne, I like to rub an ice cube on the affected area to soothe inflammation and prevent further breakouts. Alternatively, you can also try dunking your face in ice cold water the first thing after waking up in the morning. It helps reduce puffiness, shrinks open pores making the skin look firm.
All the best!
For hair, I mix my hair oil with my conditioner so it doesn't turn out greasy but my hair is coated and nourished.
For skincare, work out whether you have dry or combination, oily/dry.
For dry skin on the face, a heavier moisturiser is better. For me I have combination, so I use lighter creams, oil free, with weekly mud masks and a gel or foaming cleanser, not a heavy cream one.
Thanks<3<3<3
@AlyOneDay no worries. I also don't recommend a face scrub for oily or combination skin, it's too harsh :)
@Sea4ppl3sfunny546
If you'd like more details, Aly, here is a daily skincare routine:
Morning: Gentle cleanser, lightweight moisturizer, and sunscreen.
Evening: Cleanser, hydrating serum (such as Niacinamide) to smooth the skin's surface, and moisturizer.
Note: Use a gentle chemical exfoliant 1–2 times a week in the evening to eliminate rough skin texture.
Daily curly hair care routine:
Wash 2–3 times a week: Use a sulfate-free shampoo and a generous amount of conditioner; gently detangle with a wide-tooth comb while the hair is saturated with conditioner. Never brush your hair when it is dry.
Style while damp: Apply a leave-in conditioner or curl-defining cream, gently scrunch the hair upwards to define the curls, and then let it air dry or use a hair dryer with a diffuser attachment on a low heat setting to prevent frizz.
