Hello Friend
Hello I am Luna, a 23 year old lesbian. Recently I have noticed that I give my everything to relationships, to friendships, to my job and leave nothing for myself. The person I am with decided they want space until the end of the month with no certainty whether we're still together or not. Not knowing if she wants me to wait or move on so here I am, seeking anyone that wants to talk. Anyone who can relate or is or have been in the same situation. Or just anyone who wants to talk about anything in general. I am open. I am here.
@LunaEclipse23
Hey Luna, thank you for reaching out and sharing what you're going through. It sounds like you're going through a really tough time right now, and it's completely understandable to feel overwhelmed and uncertain about the future. It's good you are recognizing the pattern of giving everything to others and leaving nothing for yourself. That's a huge step towards self-awareness and personal growth. It's important to prioritize your well-being and happiness, even in the midst of challenging situations. As for your current relationship situation, I can imagine how difficult it must be to not have clarity on where things stand. Uncertainty can be incredibly stressful and anxiety-inducing. Remember that it's okay to feel whatever emotions come up for you during this time – whether it's sadness, frustration, or confusion. It's also important to communicate your needs and boundaries to your partner. Let them know how their request for space is impacting you and what you need from them in terms of clarity and support. Open and honest communication is key in any relationship, especially during challenging times. You're not alone in this. Many people can relate to what you're going through, and reaching out for support is a courageous step.