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User Profile: wellypen23
wellypen23 May 10th

Recently coming out as trans (mtf) but i havent told anyone yet as im still trying understand it and will be great if i can get help

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 May 10th

@wellypen23

That's very brave of you 💙🤗

It's important you take your time.

Allow yourself the time to feel happy and comfortable in your own skin.

And you'll know when the time is right for you 🩷

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User Profile: wellypen23
wellypen23 OP May 10th

Thanks its all new to me and defo think i need time

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User Profile: BlushNebula
BlushNebula May 10th

@wellypen23 Hii I'm going through something I hope everything turns out super well and I'm proud of you 😊💝

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BlushNebula May 10th

@BlushNebula something similar*

User Profile: wellypen23
wellypen23 OP May 10th

How long have you been figuring it out??

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User Profile: BlushNebula
BlushNebula May 10th

@wellypen23 well it's been a few months now and I don't know like what exactly to do going forward cuz I don't want to come out yet and need time and at the same time don't know what all I should do in private so I feel better.... Maybe after college I'll come out or start expressibg myself more feminine 

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User Profile: wellypen23
wellypen23 OP May 10th

Im sorta the same not sure how 2 go forward and dont know to tell them and currently unsure if i am masc or fem

Thats good idea slowly easing in to it

You going MTF or FTM?

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User Profile: BlushNebula
BlushNebula May 10th

@wellypen23 MTF.... Do you like have any suggestions to what we can do next cuz I'm honestly lost??

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User Profile: wellypen23
wellypen23 OP May 10th

Same here

Unfortunley i dont tbh

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User Profile: BlushNebula
BlushNebula May 10th

@wellypen23 are comfortable like us sharing our journeys with each other like from here because I feel we're literally in the exact same boat here 

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User Profile: wellypen23
wellypen23 OP May 10th

Yeah sure

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User Profile: BlushNebula
BlushNebula May 10th

@wellypen23 so like exchanging socials or any other ideas??

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User Profile: BlushNebula
BlushNebula May 10th

@BlushNebula sna-p?

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BlushNebula May 10th

@BlushNebula I'm sorry if I offended you or like crossed a boundary we don't have to if you're not comfortable 

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User Profile: Aayla
Aayla May 10th
@wellypen23 that's a tough journey for sure, but I hope it'll eventually lead you to living the life you truly want and deserve.
There are no universal solutions, all I can say is: take your time, take good care of yourself and do things that make you feel more comfortable in your own skin. Whether that be experimenting with clothing and hairstyles, or trying out your pronouns with trusted people, make sure to take some time and space to connect with who you truly are deep down.
Build yourself a support network, maybe start by coming out first to the people that you know to be more open-minded and supportive of the queer community, so you know you'll have someone by your side once you have to face the hardest coming outs. Maybe reach out to the trans community both online and in physical spaces, so you can exchange tips and experiences.
And whatever happens, don't let anything and anyone make you feel bad about yourself. You're perfect as you are.
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User Profile: wellypen23
wellypen23 OP May 10th

Thats what im planning on doing atm is taking my time and ive been looking at different clothing and would be best and i know its early but think i would want known as female as well she and her.

Once im confident enough i will tell people i trust the most and maybe name change as well

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User Profile: Aayla
Aayla May 10th
@wellypen23 that sounds like a good plan! I wish you all the best 😊
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wellypen23 OP May 10th

Thanks 😀

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wellypen23 OP May 10th

Im gunna looks trans related near me