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User Profile: PeacefulToaster222
PeacefulToaster222 April 2nd, 2025

So, I’m confused with my gender, I am bisexual, but, I like cologne, I want to cut my hair, I wnat to wear chest binders, and I don’t really feel good with my name or being a “girl” am I Trans?

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User Profile: Aayla
Aayla April 2nd, 2025

@PeacefulToaster222 I get how confusing it can be to question your gender, but don't worry, you can take all the time you need to figure it all out! Also, there's no right or wrong answer, only you can determine who you are.

First of all, remember that gender and sexual orientation are two different things, so your bisexuality doesn't really affect who you are in terms of gender. As for gender itself, gender norms are arbitrarily determined by society. Who says a man or a woman should look a certain way, like certain things, have certain behaviors? Everyone can find their own identity beyond stereotypes. That being said, if nothing about feminity appeals to you, if being recognized as a woman through names, style or other aspect of yourself doesn't feel like you, than maybe you would feel better being recognized as a man. If you're assigned female at birth, that would make you transgender. Or perhaps you are non-binary, if you don't identify 100% as a man... It can be confusing to ponder this, what you said seems to suggest that you might be trans, but that's something only you can determine for sure.