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User Profile: Jenniferjohn
Jenniferjohn December 12th, 2023

I was born a male I'm bisexual and love wearing women's clothes I'm more comfortable in women's clothes than I men's I hate that when I look down I see a flat chest and there's the *** I don't like the fact it's there but I was born with it so I'm stuck with it I'm confused would I be considered trans or just another crossdresser

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User Profile: 0XanXan0
0XanXan0 December 15th, 2023

@Jenniferjohn

I to feel the same way ( I’m afab and hate seeing my chest ) you might be genderqueer and that’s great! If you still feel ties to  having a masculine-ish gender then it could be bigender, genderflux, boyflux or girlflux! Or maybe if it just depends on the day, gender-fluid! If you just feel feminine; transfemme, librafemminine, or demigirl! If you still feel comfortable indemnifying as male then you could just enjoy cross dressing or be an femboy. Either way, take your time on figuring this out. And you are you no matter your gender (or non gender), if you want any more examples I can help! And if there’s not something that fits you perfectly, you can identify as for then one. I hope your gender dysphoria doesn’t get too bad, and best of luck! <3 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

User Profile: GoodtoCyou2017
GoodtoCyou2017 December 18th, 2023

@Jenniferjohn

Ultimately it's up to you what label you feel fits you best, be it trans, genderqueer, or whatever you think best conveys your sense of yourself and helps you find others you relate to.

The feelings you describe relating to your body align with the experiences of many trans, nonbinary, genderqueer, and gender-diverse folks. I'm sure you could benefit from talking to a professional knowledgeable about gender dysphoria and LGBTQIA issues.

User Profile: Bunnylovesyou
Bunnylovesyou December 18th, 2023

@Jenniferjohn

honestly, its whatever fits *you* best. Most people think there are specific rules, but that's gatekeeping ): if you want to be a woman all the time, maybe you are trans! You could also be genderfluid, bigender, or genderflux! The possibilities are endless. 

I hope you know you always have support here on 7cups. And this might be a hard journey of self discovery, but I can promise you this , you are not alone

if you ever need anything feel free to tag me in a forum or if you are a teen, pms are always open, and for both I reply as soon as possible❤️❤️

User Profile: sympatheticPal3197
sympatheticPal3197 August 28th, 2024

Yes I do feel the same way when ever I see women I just adore them and think how lucky are they to be born as woman.It makes me wanna cry and I am helpless