Married and love my family, but still want to be part of the community

I am married with a son and love both of them very much. I don't want to cheat. I don't need to explore anymore. I had a few years where I was very active in the LGBTQ community. I was open and dated people from all walks of life and identities. However now I find myself in a tough spot. I want to be part of the community again. I want to go see drag shows. I want to be able to go meet up with long last friends and go out with them. The obvious problem is that my wife has trust issues with me going out alone and I totally get it. I don't want to put myself in a situation where I cheat or flirt with the idea. My wife doesn't really want to go to places that I want to go to ( drag shows, gay bars, ). So my question after all that rambling is .... How do I honor my marriage, but still be part of the community I miss? Also being a coach and a teacher in a conservative school district concerns me. Any words of advice would help!