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User Profile: MicahMicahMicah
MicahMicahMicah January 5th

I don’t know what pronouns to use. I will list some pronouns and say why I don’t think they fit me. 

She/Her - I was born as a female, but I don’t think I am female, so I don’t want to use those. I don’t hate them, because I’m used to them. 

He/Him - IF only she her and he him pronouns existed I would choose he him. HOWEVER, that’s not the case. I’m not a male (not by itself anyways) and I just don’t feel comfortable with masculine pronouns. 

They/Them - It’s what I’m using at school. The only problem I have is that people PROBABLY think I am nonbinary, but I’m not. 

It/Its - The other night I was imagining scenarios of using these pronouns, and they felt kinda nice, I’m not sure why. Offsite I have changed my pronouns to it/its to test them out. Only problem I have is that some people might think that I don’t think I am a human, but I am!

Neopronouns - The only neopronouns I think I would like are e/em/eirs. I would use them, but I don’t think anyone would actually use these for me irl. And online offsite, I’ve been made fun of once for using e/em/eirs

no pronouns - idk if I’d like these. I have a feeling people would just call me a they, tho. 

All pronouns - again, idk if this is what I want. I don’t think people would actually use all pronouns for me. 

Any pronouns - I feel like if I said any pronoun would work, online I would probably be called a he or they, and irl a she. 

Mirror pronouns - I think mirror pronouns are where the user uses their pronouns as mine. I’m not sure though. Could be an option. 

Nounself pronouns - I don’t think they’d fit me. 


Anywho for now online I use it/they, irl I use they/them. 

Any advice for figuring this out?

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 January 5th

@MicahMicahMicah

Hello 🤗

Nice to meet you 💚

It's about trying new pronouns out, until you feel comfortable and find those that make you completely feel yourself, heard and accepted 💚

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